Writing somethin special. How to approach?

Hey guys,
Lately i have been hanging out with this wonderful girl, Jessica. We have been friends since we were very young and i am crazy about this girl. I think she knows i like her because we do some stuff from time to time but...

How can i write a note leading towards taking our friendship into a relationship?

To start off... Just yesturday she gave me a sexy picture of herself and she wrote a note on the back and told me i couldn't read it untill i was done hanging out with her.. So as our night ended of just smoking and hanging out in the park, right after she gives me this big bear hug, she gave me the picture and the note on the back. I took it home and when i got to my room i read the note:
Jay,
I just wanted to let you know that you are really sweet & i enjoy everytime we hang out! I really liked the times you come into my work too! It's nice to see you.
Don't do anything too dirty with my picture.
!(Your Sexy)!
Whats Life?
Jessica

That was the note on the back of the picture word for word...
I am a little confused on what she is saying, does she like me and is just telling me now or what?
(the part about "Whats Life" is an inside joke while shrooming once, when i kept asking her what life was and what humans did during life)(kinda wierd)lol

Now i think she likes me so i took a descent picture of me and am going to write on the back of it...Now i kinda took a picture that a girl gave me (not jessica) and i cut her out of the picture....
So the picture is cut at a funny angle but idk what else ima do..

So the point of this Thread (finally) is to maybe give me some ideas on my situation.. What should i write on this picture to maybe start a relationship with her?

I am really clueless because i do not want to scare her or anything by telling her how i feel about her all the way. Some things are best left un-said.(is that a word? idk)

So here i am asking you guys for advice.. I am truly crazy about this girl. I just want to put it into words but not too much at once.. idk if i can think of anyway to put this clearer ill Edit it or just post under it..

Thank You so much in advance...
(p.s. i was planning on giving her this picture tomorrow while surprising her at work?) sounds desent? ok

Jay

 

It already felt good to write that all out on the computer.. Btw her not was hand-written and i noticed that she wrote over my name 3 times in black pen, and 1 time in some pink gel pen or something like that..

Idk if that means nethin comming from ladies out there..

I think when she wrote "Your Sexy" that means something also but she just blinded me and i am absolutly clueless..
Sorry about posting the first reply right after my origional thread..

Thanks again,
Jay

 

Go get her. She is all yours.

Seriously, I think she is hinting at wanting to take things farther and this was a way for her to test the water so to speak. Don't go crazy, but definitely tell her that you really like her and find her attractive. Even ask her out on a real date?

Don't spill your guts just yet... just a little bit at a time, take things slow, but I really do think she is open to the idea of taking things further.

Best of luck!

 

I agree with Mrs. H. She definitely likes you, and the time is now. Girls are less ambivolent than guys, in my experience, and if she did all you say she has done, including rewrite that note, she definitely likes you.

You are in a wonderful position, actually. Congratulations. That is, someone you really like a lot obviously likes you back. Life is good!

What you should be thinking about now is how to not screw this up. When you are with her, when you write to her, when you speak on the phone, remember how you feel and that you want things to work out. Be true to yourself. Don't get distracted or do something foolish.

You're in a good place. It's just that many of us commit a series of stupid mistakes right when we are at the edge of getting something wonderful. I would say this is your responsibility now: to enjoy yourself, make your own feelings clear, and not mess it up.

Good luck!

 

Wow thanks for the responses...
I liked what i heard from you guys.

Ok so i am going to use that picture and come up with some kind note to write back to her. I will write something nice to her then say like... "Maybe we should just try it out sometime." and let her think about what it could mean. That would probably fit right into our friendship.
Id probably not say those exact words but something to get her thinking what i could of meant.. Should keep her interested ? idk.

Then ill say like. "call me when u read this or something." or idk if thatd b good, i was gunna ask her out on a date after she read it n stuff..

Damn im not sure what im going to do yet.. Maybe if i sleep thinking about it and her then it will probably just come to me.. Ill sleep next to a pen n a notebook 2night.

Well thanks for all ur help, i am going for it tomorrow but slowly.. Thanks for the Luck!

Jay

 

Whats with the picture exchanging? Don't you guys see eachother face to face anyway....???

 

Ok so i wrote on the back of a picture today and gave it to her while she was at work like an hour ago...

this is what is said:

Jessica,
You are more than anything anybody could ever ask for.
Your note and pictures were amazing so here i am to return the favor
I just want you to know that i love hanging out with you as well
Maybe we should try it once to see where it may take us.
This pic is not as good as yours but it was all i had.
Jay

Yea we do see eachother face to face but i think this little pic exchange with notes on em is a good thing.. It makes it easy to say what i want to and have her tell me what she wants to...

So now i made her read it when i left so im sure shes read it by now..I have to just wait untill tomorrow or the next day cause of Thanksgiving, for her response about it..

Hopefully its a good response.. When i wrote about "Maybe we should try it one and see where it takes us" she will know im talkin about a relationship but thats how we talk to eachother.. idk u gotta be there...

Anyway i did it and i feel good about the whole thing.. I thank you all for giving me confidence to write that.. lol

I will post again when i find out if she hates me or likes me..

Thank You,
Jay

 

I think it's totally fine. Your writing could be a little more elegant, but you can develop that over time. You expressed yourself clearly, and you were sincere. Sincerity is the most important thing. Not just for her, but for you too. Good luck!