Wondering if anyone has a refference site that can list all the sexual areas on both genetalia and what each areas do and how they stimulate. EX: both rumored g-spots, a-spot, etc... I wsnt to know which areas are good for causing lubrication, stimulation, and where to go exclusively for the finish.
Fanboy - for the woman, the clitoris is very sensitive, and should be stimulated (by finger or tongue) very gently and slowly. For oral, use the upper flat side of your tongue and move it back and forth and up and down. Do this until your tongue is about to fall off or until she cums. The G-spot does exist - see my post in the "G-spot v clit" thread in this section for how to find it. For the man, the most sensitive areas are the coronal ridge at the back of the glans and the area of the upside down "V" just under the glans. The frenulum (the stringy thing in that upside down "V") is also sensitive when stretched. There is also a faint line on the underside of the shaft called the rapte which is sensitive. Most of the shaft has no feeling. Many men also like to have their balls licked or sucked, although they are very sensitive and this has to be done gently.
Wouldn't happen to have a site refference? I know all that female stuff but some of that male stuff I had a small guesstimate of, but don't know EXACTLY whats going on there and why such and such works. So yeah deffinetly looking for something to make a better understanding of all the male parts you said. I'm lookin for like a precise map out. I know the general locations of things but I wanna know everything. What's connected, what over stimulates, where those nerves fall, etc etc... I'm trying to fine tune my abilities, not learn the basics.
take a premed course in embryology and anatomy if u really want to understand this in detail. short of that I can't really think of any site that a lay person could read and get a detailed understanding. truth be told you don't have enough information to have learnt the basics (and I don't mean this in a bad way). u'd have to understand the evolution of the human sexual organs for example how the scrotum is homologous to the labia majora. here's a diagram that shows how things sorta go http://www.the-clitoris.com/x/develop/mf_fet.jpg as for innervation.. well the pelvic innervation comes from the pelvic splanchnic plexus. as to how the final common pathway runs, this varies to a degree from person to person though there are some defined nerves. anyway it is complicated and u're better off just experiementing with each individual bearing in mind that no two people are completely alike.
Fanboy - just keep googling sites until you find the one that suits you - try "penis" or "kama sutra" or go to the bookstore and get "The Joy of Sex" by Alex Comfort or newer versions. There are many how-to books. Remember that you do not screw with your penis but with your brain, which sends a chemical to your penis when you start to get aroused, and opens the capillaries in the two sacks making up the shaft (called corpus cavernosa) along with the urethra, filling the sacks with blood and making the penis erect. You must keep that chemical coming to keep your erection. A telephone call,, a knock on the door, etc., can break the chemical chain and you start to get soft. Look at lovemaking as similar to an athletic pursuit - practice makes perfect, as well as communication with your teammates, or in the case of making love, your partner.
