how do you know when your aroused ladies

anti depressents have the potential to lessen one's libido, but if it makes it so that him touching you between your legs in even the softest way doesn't hurt as much as you say it does, I'd say it's worth checking out.

 

That's a lovely idea. You always have the best ideas! & Psychosexual is indeed a very,very fun word...haha.

 

wel as far as leaving things alone, fair enough, but seeing as we didnt have sex for nearly 10 years, then you would have though that things would have calmed down by themselves, ok i didnt even know that the pain i have isnt normal and i didnt have the pills to deaden things down, but even with this break it never let up, so im weary to try that again, i know its silly but i have a feeling that that wont help.

as for the comments she made, remember the "nothing to traumatic " bit i told you about, iriesoaringeagle? thats when i nearly hit her!!!!

yes im very worried about the anti depressants, as i know that they can have this effect, thats one of the reasons that i dont want to take them, as well as the other side effect for me, i discussed this with my doctor, but she still gave them to me, and now im relucant to take them, when i know there are alternatives, that dont have this kinda effect. it may have been different if the meds where guareenteed to work, but as they are so hit and miss and even regarding doseage they dont know what will work or not, and i end up in the postion of being unable to have sex at all. that makes the last 12 months seem a total waste of time and effort to make things better if i take this stuff.

oh yes, the bit about him being rough and stuff. if he does still do the things his way after all this, and causes me more damage, well i have a big fat vib that im equiped to handle and his parts arent!!! i think that would get the message over to him!!!! well that and a knife!!!