Challenge...Synastry chart reading....

I had started this in another thread but thought this would recieve more attention....Anyone interested in figuring this out...Much appreciation.


here is the cliff notes version:

Dated for 3 years...broke up due to immaturity, insecurity issues etc. We talk everyday ever since the break up and never been with anyone else on a sex level. Was wondering if astrology can predict if we are compatible enough...or is the honeymoon over? etc......


Would be very very grateful for anyone who takes a liking to this sort of thing...or who wants to give it a shot.

Many thanks!



(me)female
8.8.80
2:25pm
baltimore, md

him
1.19.81
11:35 PM
baltimore, md

 

oh i forgot to mention you can have a summary of a synastry chart done for free on a few websites. i know its impersonal, which i dont favor, but its a start to understanding the energies between you by yourself. hope some astrologers can help you gain some insight.

 

you might even already know this about the websites, but just thought i would mention it. peace and goodnight.

 

yea, I have done those...and they are so-so. It just doesnt really go into detail and Im looking to cut beyond the surface...you are cute...haha night

 

Hey dude or dudette get the 2 charts off of astro.com or someplace and post them
here and we can take a look.

 

I dont know how to do that? can someone help me...or tell me how to do it..thanks

 

save the picture to your desktop, if not and you copy and paste the image address, the picture has an expiration. save it to your desktop, get an account from some photostorage sight like www.photobucket.com. upload the picture when it asks you to browse the files in your hard drive. then when it is uploaded right click the url and copy it. then when posting a reply on here, find the yellow image button next to all the font and stuff, click that and it says paste your address. preview your reply just to make sure the image comes up and submit the reply. sounds complicated but its not.

 

or you can just use tinypic.com which now that i think of it would be easier. go to tinypic, upload the pic, adn it will give you three options....pic the url not the html or other stuff like that.

 

the ex


mine

 

the ex

 

I posted this in the original thread where you made the request. Here's a copy:


I'm not great at synestry, but here is what sticks out.

Your ascendant is Scorpio ruled by Mars. His ascendant is Libra ruled by Venus.

Your Mars (him) is in Libra (his ascendant) and his Mars (you) is in Aquarius which does not figure heavily in yours.

I would read that is that you are more into him than he is in you. Venus in Scorpio is not very happy, and Mars in Aquarius is peregrine, so it doesn't have any power at all. It's just there.

It seems like that during the relationship there was quite a bit of conflict, and now there isn't much momentum to keep it going.

 

what do you mean venus in scorpio? I have my venus in cancer I thought?

 

Sorry I don't know what the hell I was looking at. I was looking at the two charts and I got things mixed up while I was going back and forth.

Venus is in Cancer. Actually the reading is the same though. Venus is much more dignified in Cancer than Mars in Aquarius. Venus is only dignifed by face which shows insecurity or fear. Add that to what I said above. You tended to be the more insecure one in the relationship.

Again in the end I would say you are driving this more than he is, but on his side I don't see any momentum for the relationship.

 

okay...thanks

 

Actualy that's the gist of what I am seeing - more an apathy and not as much a real conflict.

 

Yeah, but the thing is Aquarius is intercepted in her chart, so you have to look at what house his Mars is in her chart, which suggests to me it's in a position of helpfulness in communication, mentality, and traveling. He probably encourages her into activity. It's not badly aspected, so I believe this is the case. Of course, I could be wrong, but that is just how I see it.

 

yes, he is pretty apathetic...but, he is also extremely sensitive...we are both cancer moon. Why is it that its more so me than him that wants the relationship to work?

 

this is making me sad...I honestly thought that we were soulmates...I know that sounds naive but thats how I felt. oh well

 

With his Moon in your 8th house, it suggests that you may interest him in occult matters. It's commonly associated with business partners, which is also in correlation with Mercury in your third house. With the Moon in the 8th house there is a lot of feeling, but it can easily turn into an all or nothing partnering. There might be fights over money...

Again, this is just my interpretation and I could be dead wrong.

 

He IS sensitive, but he doesn't like showing this kind of stuff. He may sometimes, but he doesn't like it. You show more.