life can be very problamatic when you understand the signs.so here is my story and the dangerous situation i now find myself in. all through my life i have looked in my sisters mags in the stars section trying to gain some reason to why a girl likes a bloke.thats as far as it went. i got a girlfriend knew her sign.but that was as far as it went.that was mainly due to the fact fact that at that early age i didnt understand who i really was .and also that everyone seeming so different to me and the reasons why i was looking for a girl were nothing to do with thier personality. when i was young girls were a trophy to display on my arm.that had to fit the survival of the fittest criteria. i was always looking for the most prized possesion not looking at the girl with in.basically i didnt really need anyone just someone to have sex with and talk about with my mates.then hunt for the new conquest. its like the classic beatles song help!! i was aware though of many girls that did make me feel vulnerable like they had a certain power over me. but genrally these girls were always going out with older blokes and were friendly to me and sometimes would have a one night stand but that was it .they were out of reach. once i got to 23 i did feel the need to have a live in relationship a proper one.to try and commit. so i met this girl instant rapport she was 18 an a hungarian girl on a 2 year visa.this made me feel safe as i could explore a proper realtionship knowing that it had a perfect get out clause at the end.even though it would be serious it was not forever.she was a gemini and so am i. so i guess she was thinking along the same lines.the time with her was amazing and we spent two years in perfect bliss.both never really addressing how we reallyfelt about each other.remember it was entered knowing it was not forever. the day came when she went home.from that point on i was destroyed.left with nothing no belief in love.how could i feel this way about anybody and know that they felt the same way back.but it still didnt stand for anything.it still had to end. empty and devoid of any faith in love i started to play again hurting and faking just for some attention and to forget my pain.many girls but nothing close to how i felt about her.i continued to have one girl as my base a leo she just wouldnt let go.even was waiting for me at the airport after a exploring the possibilities of the hungarian girl on a long pre arranged visit to see her.as time passed by some older people i worked with questioned me on what i expected my future wife to be and the qualities she would have.they would fequently point out that my leo was a superb woman and how well we were getting on.as i had no faith in love.this girl yes she would leave me one day,but that would be far in the future.and she was a good woman we got along really well.i did love her in a sense.in this confused state i was asked to leave it in knowing that she was not on the pill and what that would mean. in that split second i decided that she was the one i would settle for .time to settle down and be a family man.i would ike to point out at this time there were girls around i knew i fancied in a different way to my attraction to her.but again any attempts at obtaining these girls was a waste of time.they were always in a non-committing state and i i could only see the heart ache the hungarian girl had brought for example my leos best friend was a libra they were tiny moments between us where i knew i wanted her (even had threesome with her and my leo).but she was dating a thirty year old(who was a gemini didnt register at the time the significance of this)and was jetting all over europe as a singer in shows.why waste my time with her i thought.shes not ready. love who needs it. so at 27 with my beautiful leo i fathered my first child happy in the decsions i had made. 9 years of a good relationship followed we did well together didnt split up when all around us were another child followed still totally happy. yes there were some girls i was attracted to but they did not make me feel i had made the wrong decsion.(all sagatturius by the way,now i look back) the years moved on. then my wife met a very close girlfrend another leo.they melted together and spent all spare time togehter. i was left on the side.then as the arguments broke out.our opposite fire air relationship became the main arguing point.in my mind that is my wife does not really believe in signs that much. it became a release for my wife to be around someone that saw the worls the same way as she did.my wife was aggravated by my different approach to life.and where once we valued each others opinions. they now were a reason to argue, this got worse and worse. at the same time at work due to not getting on with a boss.using the internet i started to read up on signs a lot more to try and understand why i struggled with my boss.it really helped when i found out he was a aries and how they genrally behave.as this helped me as i was a manager i started to read more and more about my employees signs and how it was suggested i get on with them .only slowly at first.but as i began to see a little pattern i began to beleive in it and strated to put it into pratice. it become very apparant that libras liked having me as a boss.and it was true.all libra employees responded to me very well. at a new store something else changed due to a piceses.a extremly pretty girl who everybody wanted started to show a intrest in me i became besotted with her.but the naughty girl was only manipulating me for an easy ride at work.but she awakened a presence inside me. we also used to talk about signs alot due to her previous boyfriend and father of her child being a leo. and as we described what it was like to live with a leo the truth of the signs became really apparent as it was like we were living with the same person who behaved in the same way at home although two differnet people were involved.at this time i was working with many libras all of them were great friends. a couple of the girls were also very very attentive towards me.although i was not physically attarcted to them iwas after the pretty picses.one became my side kick and was always around me and i was always talking to her. mainly about her best friend the picses.this went on for months.then sitting with some older women they were mentioning how obvious it was that i was besotted with a girl at work.i laughed and joked about it,the shock came when they told me it was the ugly libra they thought i was besotted with.i told them it was the picses and they kindly pointed out my behaviour and how i spent all my time with the libra girl.so i conceded thier point and said life would be perfecy if i could have the looks of the picses and the personailty of the libra. a girl turns up at this piont im asking everyone thier sign.she tells me scorpio. as time goes by this girl is a great girl i get along really well with .and im slightly confused as to why we get on.i dont normally get on with scorpios in this way. after a party we talk and i find out she wen to them same school as me .which was a great talking point seeing as she is 19 an im 33.this day i sit down on a chair and she sits on me but only for a second.and im thinking wow all my sign thoerys are out the window.after that we are constantly making eye contact and playing games being nasty to each other.days later in a group with some libras i make a comment like to a girl "thats because you are a stupid libra" this new girl the one im really getting on with the one i think is a scorpio says whats wrong with libras im a libra i drop dead.im shaking.and im scared.she is beautiful.i really like her. and it seems she likes me. the freindship stays the same as she has quickly picked up a boyfriend at work. she goes sick for two weeks and her boyfriend works all the hours god sends. which i think is silly way to treat this girl one night the libra i dont fancy is txting her because she is bored i nick the phone and play guess who? by three in the morning she is inviting me to keep her company in bed. life changing moment life is shit at home there is more to the story and my fears but this is long enough already i accept her offer. young girl great body. gonna be fun. how wrong i was .the third time i spent with her .i was destroyed she did something so little not involing sex.and i was lost. i began to fall madly in love with this girl. not becasue she was young not because she was a trophy to hang off my arm. but becasue she knew and understood me more than my wife did.i got more form her than even the hungarian girl from years ago. i was finally in love for the first time in my life i was helpless. i was finally just being me no games no acting no doubts i was being loved for being me. for 4 months this continued. but being an idiot i played it cool.too much going on i was having my cake and eating it. wife at home lover on the side. but every minute i knew she owened me being a smart girl,she went and found someone else someone who didnt drive home to his family at night. i died .fell apart.wife found out because i guess i wanted to. told the libra girl everything,but too late she had moved on. i had to work with her for a few months more.and i always saw in her eyes that she loved me.it was hell. i finally knew how to fall in love and who with without any fear. i was well and trully fucked up. the star signs were so true.libra gemini totally amazing i got moved store ,lost and confused still txting the libra and she was still keeping me close by for what i still wonder.but she is there and always will be. its corny but her life style suited mine to the smallest detail.well as much as a man and woman can. i patched up things with my wife and we started to try again. it lasted for a litlle while ,but this nagging fear was still there was we with the wrong sign for us to be truly happy. at the new job i worked in a daze thinking all the time what if a pretty libra walks in the door to strat work. what would i do .how would i cope . slowly a pretty young thing began to pay me attention. it was a differnet attention.but very pleasing again. whats going on i thought to myself. at this point i thought shes not a libra is she.i had asked someone and they said no there was no libras here. so me and this start to play a lot . then curious with all my confusion and needing answers for me to caay on with my life and take these doubts away.i look in her file aquarius. thats the other air sign ,i start to think of all the aquaruis i know and yes i get on with them. right i have fallen madly in love with gemini,libra what happens with aquaruis i ask myself . so i respond to her games.give har a little more attention than i was.and again if i had a list of things that after ten years of marriage that i want girl to be intrested in and what my sexual turn ons have been for the whole of my life ,e.g. sporty girl. she ticks every box.we look the same everything.in fact more than the libra girl. i can handle it i think we got close too close .she made it a one night stand (as i learn typical aquaruis)but her eyes have never left me . i think i have cried every day since that night i have learned i have no power over air sign girls. i am helpless in thier arms.they are perfect from the smothering libra to distant aqurius they both turn me on in a way i could never describe. and its so easy to be me around them.and they love me for it and because of this i have looked back over every girl that was magical in my life and yes all of them every single one .the unobtainable girls are bloody air signs. my wifes best friend the libra went and recently married a gemini everywhere i look air signs are marring air sings do they understand this brad pitt libra jennifer anniston aqurius angelina joline gemini do they know this every famous gemini i know has married a libra or aquaruis the music industry is full of the air signs ,probably geminis writing most of the songs bob dylan simple twist of fate is what the aquarius girl has dome to me hes gemini what do you reckon the girl he writes about is an aquiruis? word for word it describes what happened on my night i have been off work for 2 months now through stress working with the aquriuos girl who has been playing with me for over a year tearing me this way and that ,running away then ,making sure i dont go.lying all the time.not talking to me for months then pouring her heart out.has sent me over the edge i have to go back to work soon what do i do ? how can i cope ? is it all true .my poor leo wife has to put up with all this confusion. i love her .but its just not the same. i have three kids. is it really that much better with an air sign girl ? coz inside it feels that way both girls are still there just a little out of reach but still there in the same room i could not choose. but how do i handle any other air sign girls i have hurt many air signs girls along the way .ones i have use but did not fancy. but i cant ever get iver the look in my 2 lovers eyes ,i loved them they knew that ,they loved me i know that .unconditional im so scared i just had to put it into words im back to love who needs it well i need it. i need it from either if them its to great a gift to give up any help this gives im happy any help you can give im grateful life can be so catch 22 i love my wife but i know i love them more why are you air sign girls so bloody difficult they both know the feelings are perfect so why have they always walked. why does it all seem to rely on finding on at the right time
Dear Gemini Man I'm an Aries male, the best who tells what he thinks in the most un-diplomatic way, so do not get hurt. Gemini Male are known to be a play boy, my father and many friends are, so i know what i'm talking about, maybe those girls left to others because they felt that. Of course there is a harmony between you and the rest of Air element people, but think of it as: it could be very boring if you stay too long with some body same nature as you, where is the excitement then. Your Lioness could be the best match for you, because she is Fire element, and Air goes well with fire. Maybe she neglected you a bit because of the children ..although usually a lioness will not do so. It could be very well, that although you are very young, think you have to test that playboy in you and giving it reasons. OK, you get bored quickly, and you do not like it, try to change the conditions around you, try to make you marriage life more exciting, start with your self, point to your wife what you wish to have, and do it together. Any how, i know you did not come here for such advice, but be ware not to loose something, that you realize later, how important it was to you. My best Regards and sorry if i was Crule. PS. Brad Bitt is not a Gemini nor Libra, he is a Sag.
whoops !! about brad pitt well that helps a bit ,destroys the pattern if you know what i mean . i do know my personality type and thanks for the advice its so hard to fight the negative sides of your personality im am trying so hard to make sense of it all and your thoughts do echo a lot of my own
Well I'm water and what you have said doesn't really strike any type of chord with me in any way. but we all have to overcome the negatives in ourselves ... and with pisces, there's alot. many gifts, yes. but lots to overcome.
Hey Man, do not forget - I'm in your side - have deep respect to Gemini. It is like "Bless who made me sad, and made people sad for me than the one who made me laugh & made people laugh at me". Just thought of telling you, what really feel. Good luck.
