My boyfriend just turned 30, but he still has wet dreams often. He masturbates a couple times a week but he still has them. And after jacking off and cumming in his sleep his libido has gone down...Is this normal?
Well, I would think that maybe he should reduce the amount of jacking off he does. You can't really help the wet dream situation, as far as I know. I'm assuming you'd rather he have you for a sexual partner rather than his hand? You should probably tell him how you feel.
I do believe that jacking off takes up some of a man's sex drive, this will depend on the individual. Wet dreams shouldn't take away as much, although they are natures way of releasing the pressure (somewhat) in the male reproductive system. Maybe he should try cutting back on the jacking off a bit just to see how it affect sex with you. I'd do it for a partner, but then again, I'm unusual in some ways.
