ok this is going to sound juvinille but how can I tell if this guy likes me? We talked just about everynight for hours for like a week straight. we have hung out twice now and he was all over me, holding my hand hugging me and stuff of that nature. the second time we hung out we fooled around (last sunday) yeah yeah i know im easy i dont want the lecture. but this week we talked maybe three times and I called him thursayd and left a message he never returned the call. its now satuday and im kinda freaking out. he told me its against his religion to be dishonnest and honor is the thing he takes most pride in. what should I do? should I call him or wait or how do i figure out if he is even interested.
as nice as he may be keep looking. he may need space to collect his feelings but dont sit at home waiting i reckon a month of staying faithfull to him waiting for him to define the realtionship a bit more is ok some people dont like to feel trapped orr rushed but dont give him more than a month
He's probably thinking what you already said. As shitty as that sounds, yeah, guys do notice when a girl gives it up too quickly and it's a real turn off for some. Though then it starts the whole silly cycle of "He won't call me/she won't call me - I wonder who will call first or make the first move." All part of "dating".
If he paid alot of attention to you and you "fooled around" and now he won't return your calls I would write him off. I would suggest that you move on, and if he calls deal with it then. Don't waste your time waiting around for someone that can't be "man" enough to return a phone call, even if it is to say "I just want to be friends."
or even,"I don't wana be friends." And to a young, heathy, 19 year old MassGirl, why wait and worry? Shheeees! The whole world awaits you. Forget him and his bad manners.
If he doesn't call you this weekend forget about it. From my point of view, if i liked a girl, i wouldn't wait too much to call her, i would at least text message the gal, just to see how she's doing, to chit chat, etc etc, and then arrange something for the next weekend, but that's only me.
just to give everyone an update, I mustered up the courage and asked hm straight up if he is interested. He said yes BUT he isn't emotionally ready for a relationship right now. go fucking figure.
