I'm 18 and recently, one of my friends asked me to sleep with him. He's gay... I know he's gay because I've seen conversations he's had and actually have SEEN his boyfriends...he is definitely gay. But he was talking to me about wanting to sleep with a GIRL just to A) see what it was like and B) be able to say he's done it...he said it would have to be a "very special female friend"... I liked him for a while (before I realized he was gay). And I don't know what to do. I would be losing my virginity to a gay guy...what do I do? Advice is much appreciated! The real trouble with reality is that there is no background music! I'm not crazy...my reality is just different from yours...
Don't have sex with guys you don't like. If you want a unique losing virginity story, go for it. If you'd rather lose your virginity to someone you think you are going to love for the rest of your life, wait. (Are you concerned with this being an opportunity to cure his homosexuality?) NO BACKGROUND MUSIC ?!? That's what iPods are for. (OK, the hippy dippy response should be: "NO BACKGROUND MUSIC ?!? That's why crickets chirp, birds sing and the wind whisles. God's Muzak!")
Well, I wouldn't personally comfortable doing it. But that's just me. I think I would feel a bit weird having sex with a good friend I knew was gay. But if you're okay with it and want to lose your virginity this way, go for it. At least he's a good friend and thinks highly of you and as a very close friend. And I think it's totally normal for him to want to explore his sexuality.
I think its up to your views on sex. If losing your virginity is a important, life changing event for you, this isn't the way to lose it. If you don't care either way, do what you feel.
To me the issue is not whether he is gay, but whether you want to sleep with him, personally... and what everyone else said
