We recently got a message from a guy who admits he's married but wants to "meet up sometime".. What should we do for maximum hilarity??
follow him home after he realize he's been stood up and tell his wife...not funny but she should know
I think it's a tad childish for husband to be looking outside his marriage for attention. MySpace is a virtual gathering place for underage kids which means ol' roving hubby is likely a closet pedo. As far as I'm concerned all holds are barred as far as such characters are concerned. Exactly who is being cruel to whom? Mr. Roving eye looking for some underage nookie behind the wife's back or catching him at his game?
I knew that people would use that arguement to back up doing something like this. in actual fact we don't know where people are at, its easy to make statements about people when they are just a name on the net, but it could just be someone thats very lonely or is being abused and looking for a way out of it. your right that a lot of people on the net may not be stable, internet dating attracts people who are very lonely and often don't have an idea of how to establish face to face conversations with people. (the internet also attracts very vulnerable people, how may people on here have stated that they're going to commit suicide, I'm beginning to loose count) the reality of this is when people joke around other people can get hurt. you can make any excuse you like about what hubby is 'likely' to be, that doesn't make set ups like this any less cruel and nasty S
people are still really conservative and judgemental when they hear things like this, if he is in fact married, how many people here have never cheated on their partner or been married and hated it. also my friend went through a stage of being very lonely and incredably vulnerable and very exploited on the net. I'm not going to go into it to deeply and i'm sure that most of you would argue that it was her fault anyway, but it would never have happened if some silly childish individuals hadn't tried to exploit her S
OK well everyone thats in favour of this get back to me, when you've had a close friend or member of your family exploited badly by the internet. tell me how 'interesting and fun' you found it then S
I can't argue with your points; my position is- right or wrong that if someone comes out and says he or she's looking to hook up behind a spouse's back that person is asking for trouble. It's possible the "man" is simply trying to flush out someone willing to be a homewrecker... it's also possible that it's someone looking to lure an unsuspecting person into a dangerous situation. I'm willing to assume that it's indeed a roving husband looking for a little something on the side and is stupid enough to look for it online. At very least such an individual needs to be scared into settling matters on the home front before looking to try and hook up. Looking to screw around while still in a marriage just adds to the injury of a bad relationship... would you rather Mr. Interloper be punked in a childish prank or would it be better that he hook up with a stranger and bring a lovely disease home to the Mrs. Granted, there's enough blame to go around in most failed relationships but trolling around MySpace to fill the void created by a loveless union only serves to prolong the pain of a broken union and expose parties to unnecessary risks. People who troll around as described in the OP are open game.
Stinkfoot this isn't the way to do it, would you clap me on the back if I created a guy on myspace, then waited until someone came along, that could possibly be a vulnerable 16 year old girl that gets damaged by the experince, or does my arguement that i might make 20 cheating wives think again. the end just doesn't justify the means. my your arguement people can do anything wrong any really nasty if its to catch people out who you feel morally deserve it, the arguement doesn't make sense S
thats crap, it could make a lot of them so angry when they realise they've been tricked that they might go out and look for the real thing. give me the proof to back up that statement you've just made S
you should msg guys that live in the same area with sexual advances and see what happens, the possibilities are endless I would use a pre-fabricated script to be sent to many males, taken and singles and see the reaction this would almost be a social experiment and could be seen as a scientific experiment trolling myspace is something ive been wanting to do for a long time, instead today i decided to troll hip forums