Girls: Do you get upset at your s/o if he "bottoms out"?

One thing I should add to my post, although I can orgasm from it I can only stand it for about 2 minutes at a time, then it has to stop, after awhile it's just pain.

 

Hmm, maybe I was misunderstood by what I was oringinally saying... If my girlfriend does something that hurts ACCIDENTLY, I can understand; I simply ask her to becareful and that's that. But I would ACCIDENTLY go too far, because I can only feel once I've hit her cervix, and she would get soo upset at me that she would almost want to stop having sex... ya know, kind of like I did it on purpose.

 

The one partner who consistently 'bottomed out' in me, well. Ok, we were bf/gf but it was really just a physical relationship... sex stopped being good because 1) foreplay shortened considerably and 2) he bottomed out every time we fucked, not just once but several times per session. I broke up with him because the sex was bad (and since sex was the only part of our relationship really, bad sex meant I had no reason to stick around)

Say she scrapes her teeth against your cock during a blowjob. You say ouch, but nearly every time she performs oral on you, she scrapes her teeth hard enough to hurt you. You gonna wanna keep up with receiving oral sex if that's the case? It trains our bodies to hurt, to not want sex because we associated it with pain (and not the good kind)

 

I'm usually pretty satisfied with longer guys. I take Seasonale, which causes four or less very short/light periods a year, and I also don't ovulate. My cervix doesn't change much because of this so I actually enjoy it when guys go really deep. To me, it feels amazing.

 

Hi dances in pajamas, thanks for your opinion. It is nice to hear from more women that think deep penetration feels amazing.

hey8122, so what you really meant by asking us this question is "why can't she understand that you're doing it accidentally, just as she may do something to you accidentally". I see what you mean. Well, I guess since you are the one doing much of the thrusting, it seems to her that you could control it. She may think that you can "feel" more than you actually can with your penis.

I still stand by my belief of being able to go behind/below the cervix with the end of the penis. The angle of penetration, and the position will affect this. If this doesn't work, I guess that you'll just have to stick to shallow thrusting, or slow down so you won't hit things, you'll just rub them. Otherwise, try having her ride you like Rue Takedo mentioned. Then, it'll be her fault.

Anyway, I may not have explianed the technique of deep thrusting, or going below/behind the cervix well in my other long post, so here is some information from Wikipedia.

This is from the page covering the topic of Human Penis Size. This subtopic on that page is Penis Size and Vaginal Response.

Some women have reported enjoying stimulation of the cervix[21], although this may be confused with the cul-de-sac (back of vagina, past cervix)[22]. The cul-de-sac is said to be another possible orgasm trigger area.[23] Tests have shown that pressure on this area causes the vagina to lubricate very quickly. There isn't yet a consensus on the name for this newly discovered highly erotic area (thus far referred to as cul-de-sac). It has also been called the A-Spot, AFE-Zone, AFE, T-Spot, or epicentre. No matter the size of a man's penis it takes a level of skill to stimulate this area. The man with a shorter penis can also stimulate this area using some advantageous positions which shorten the distance to the uterus.[24].

Long penises (over ~20 centimetres (8 in)) can be susceptible to rubbing on, or striking, the cervix, which has been described as being a sensation similar to being punched in the stomach [citation needed]. Over-stretching the back of the vagina can also cause discomfort, and this may be mistaken for cervix pain. Thus very long penises sometimes cannot be fully inserted. The exact depth depends on both anotomical dimensions and arousal of the woman, as well as the sexual technique used.

During sexual intercourse, the vagina lengthens rapidly after initial insertion from about 10 to 14 cm (4[25] to 5.5 in), but the final and initial depths vary from woman to woman ±2.5 cm (±1 in). The vagina (with proper arousal) will stretch to envelop larger sizes (up to a point) — about 19–23 cm (7.5–9 in) maximum on average (although more may be accommodated with long-term adaptation). As the woman becomes fully aroused the vagina tents (last ²⁄₃ expands in length and width) while the cervix retracts [26], meaning that with the right penetration angle long penises will slide over or under the cervix without directly hitting it (instead stretching the back of the vagina or cul-de-sac). Enough foreplay to produce full arousal is generally needed to ready a woman for penetration by a large penis — although this same amount of foreplay is often recommended regardless of the man's penis size.

Now, I hope that the information from Wikipedia is helpful for some members.

In the end, it still balls down to the fact that every woman has their own opinion as to what is pleasureble to them, and what is not.

 

I always thought it was funny that guys boast about their nine or ten inch penises, but unless they are gay or like anal, what are they going to do with it? Just gets in the way, like huge breasts, or unless you want to pee around a corner....

 

I agree with Cutted. Most women do not enjoy very long penises, so I honestly have no idea why guys feel so satisfied and cocky - no pun intended - when they have big dicks.

 

I know why they feel satisfied, and I don't blame them one bit, but being cocky is just wrong. Very few people are attracted to arrogance.

Guys that are satisfied with their penis size are very lucky.