Top/bottom/ active/passive (merged)

Meh, I go more along the lines of androgyny... I'm all femme, but, I'm a tomboy, too... I can be really girly, or, overcome that and get my hands dirty... I'm dominantly submissive, I guess.

 

well, while im not a girl, im mostly masculine, but i can be femm occationally .

 

I'm Jessica.

 

Im mostly adrogynous, but I can be fem or tomboy depending who I like or going out with. But really mostly me. holla.

 

yeah im andro as well. i dont think theres really a binary of butch and femme. there are multitudes of gender identities that lesbians can fit into.

 

A FemMe But If U Piss Me Off , The Butch In Me Comes Out!! Ps. MY G/f Is A Sexi Stud Butch !!! Hugs And Licks 2 All !!

 

Im just me. Call it what you want?

 

Pretty much femme...

 

femme

 

Both and more

 

Aren't you describing the way all women are--whether they're straight or gay?

 

Hello everyone

1 I was wondering, as gays, what do you prefer the most:
being Top
or
Bottom

2 do you find any difference between?
3 can you / do you stay loyal to your boyfriend?

 

Yes, I do stay loyal to my boyfriend. Many gay men do.

The other questions just don't matter.

 

I am a bottom. It is just my personal preference.

I have had boyfriends and lovers and it depends on the relationship. With my last lover we had an open relationship. We were loyal to one another in our hearts. However, we did bring in other sex partners for 3 ways and 4 ways. Additionally, we did trick around.

 

Bottom because I am feminine. I think I should have been a girl.
Promiscuous, "I don't really do relationships."

 

I'm versitile, and I can't imagine why someone would limit themselves to top or bottom. I am entirely capable of being monogamous

 

i'm versatile. with my first boyfriend i always bottomed because that's what he insisted, after we broke up and i started sleeping around i stayed a 'bottom' because i was afraid to top for the first time with someone who'd probably just laugh at my inexperience. then i met a man with whom i am still great friends, it was always fairly casual but we were together for a couple of months and he was versatile, but prefered to bottom. he was great and with him i discovered that i loved being a top too.

my current boyfriend is also versatile, but i was his first and he's new to sex so if he decides he has a preference that'll be fine by me. i love the sensations of being a top and a bottom. being a bottom feels amazing with the right person, but being a top really gives me the feeling that i'm making love to my boyfriend, who yes i am totally loyal to. i've been promiscuous before and learnt that it's not for me.

 

it is always great to hear from some of hip gays experiences, and I am happy to see you all proud of yourselves, but what would you advice a beginner?

 

I would like to understand what makes a man a total top or a total bottom. Which are you and why? Do you enjoy being both?

 

I am versatile and perfer the same. I personaly consider the top/bottom thing to be closeminded and selfish. When I found out that many people are one or the other I was shocked that so much of the comunity would act and self identify in a way that I personaly consider so degrating and shameful.