how many is too many?

Y'know... I said "partners" about 3 times without even realising it!



How PC am I?????

 

haha.......your not pc...your cute !!!!!!!!

 

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I've had 6 "sexual intercourse" partners in 20 years.

I'm addicted to role-play and fore play... Yes, I treat sex as a game, not an act of love.. I have virtually no desire in seeing my games reach the climax that most people seem to aim for..

Am I a slut?

Should I put in to a vote in my own thread??

 

i would say no .they are very lucky guys

 

A slut or a whore is a woman who has concensual sex with men she is not officially dating.

 

Well, I'm 18 and still counting... and it's definitely over four. It's hard to have "too many" sexual partners. It's what you're comfortable with. Unless you can't count that high. Then you may have to cut down. I consider myself a slut, and not in a bad way.

 

at ANY age, the number that is too many is always one more than s/he is happy and comfortable with. since i can't read minds, i can't judge how many is too much for someone else; only myself.

and truly, anyone using words like "whore" or "slut" in any serious manner to label someone has too little maturity to have their opinion matter.

 

4 at 18 is nothing!! its quite low in fact..4 is practicaly a virgin still
i wouldnt concider her a slut if shed had 28 at 18.. unless maybe she hangs out in the park offering blowjobs to anyone who passed by.. and even then i wouldnt concider her a slut, just maybe a possible sex addict

 

i've messed around [not had sex with]...geeez...lost count...maybe 15 - 20 guys through highschool / college [started at about age 14]? that's anything from kissing / on-top of clothes stuff to full on s&m roleplay / oral sex that's left me with scars from the scratch marks

i've fucked 2 guys and first had sex when i was 17.
never messed around with a girl but i sure have wanted to!!!!

4 at 18 isnt a slut. slut is just a label it means nothing.
but i do like being called a slut sometimes...gets me off

 

4 in two years isn't a lot.....at all.

I don't think there can be a set number that is "too many". I mean, is everyone going to sit around and agree "13 is too many. If you've had sex with 12 people, it's not too many. Once you hit 13, it's too many." I think it depends on the individual. And even then, I'd wonder.

 

If I was dating a girl, and I asked her how many partners she's had, and she told me "none of your business" I would be cool with that. I'd rather not know anyway. Because it's none of my business. As long as she is with me at the particular time, and she isn't fucking anyone else, it doesn't matter how many sexual partners she's had.

If she's had a lot, chances are I will feel she's a little bit slutty, but she is probably damn good at fucking my brains out.

If it's not a lot, I will feel like she's sweet and innocent, but she probably sucks in bed, and I would feel like I would have to teach her everything.

I'd rather she told me "none of your business" and our sex life grows and develops independent of either of our past experiences. Just as long as she's not afraid to get alittle kinky.

 

At 18, four different guys screwed on the first date, or on one night stands might be considered slutty, but four guys you dated where the relationship gradually progressed to intercourse is not slutty, it's just practicing for the big event - marriage.

 

Four, for fucks sakes, ive been with that mny guys in one night!!! not too many

 

One night? I've always thought an orgy would be fun.

 

sleep with as many people as you can! (safely)

Sex is not something that is dirty or slutty-- as long as you enjoy yourself!

peace and love

 

likewise, it sounds like a party to me!

 

IMHO, a slut is male or female. A slut is using their good looks/sex to cause mental anguish, or to degrade a person. It's that fuck you over attitude.

 

Slut is a degrading term. No matter how many people you've been with, you decide what you are. If you think your a slut... then you are one. Your sexuality and how many partners is a deeply personal thing that no one else really has a right to label.

 

i don't think it's a matter of numbers here - no one is keeping score!

if you're feeling it and the scene/motive is right - indulge and enjoy! don't let the best years of your life slip away from you because you're worried about labels or how you may be judged......gotta be true to yourself - it gives you greater experience that you can share with a few special lovers down the road, and certainly makes for some groovy memories in your later years

love is there to be shared, it's a universal thing, and i don't think it should be limited, but that's just my opinion

 

haha, depends on who is on the guestlist.....are you organizing?