I wasn't really sure where to put this thread so I put it in womens section because I figured I'd get the best answers here. But anyway, I am a freshmen in college and there is this girl I like. She recently broke up with her boyfriend. We talk virutally everyday via person, internet, or phone. But, Is there any way to tellif she is interested in me?
ask her well if she's talking to you every day, there's probably some romantic interest...or if there isn't atm, there will probably be some soon. i mean, i don't think she'd talk to you this much if she wasn't that interested, she'll know that it would seem like leading you on, so simply wouldn't do it. UPDATE- no seriously, just ask her if she's interested in you. i just spent way too long on a wild goose chase...2 years i was close to this guy, always thought we were something more, asked him last night and he said he had never thought of me that way. for people our age, 2 years is a very long time...i wish he'd told me sooner
hmmm.... in my experience, if you don't know her well, she is single, she invites you places (not you and your mates, you specifically), she is interested. Still, every situation is different, play it by ear. Every girl I have been with has made it extemely obvious they are interested.
Recently there was this girl (Maria José) that had broken up with his bf, she was very nice to me. I eventually started thinking that maybe she was interested in me, so i asked her if she was dating someone, she said yes (bummer) but a week later, she told me she was a bit tired of relationships and she needed a time out. She then decided to focus on studying and having fun with her friends...The point is, your female friend may be tired and not ready to get into the next serious "thing". The girl from my example is actually back with her ex, i think it's fucked up, because she complaint about him being violently jelous (once) and a total grumpy motha f* throughout the relationship, but that's another story, don't wanna hear her cry if he surprisingly didn't change.
Try being a bit of an asshole. If she thinks of you as a friend, she'll back off. If she's into you, well, she'll be more into you.
Thanks for the advice everyone. I am trying not to rush things because of her recent breakup. But, it seems like shes into me. Regardless, I am going to go with the asshole approach and see how that works out.
yeah, usually if a girl likes you she woudl go out of her way to find ways to be around you. But yea, i agree. When in doubt, ask.
