How can we let other men know wife is approachable?

I still prefer adult ads, but I guess that part of the turn-on for her is successfully seducing someone from the beggining, in person.

 

Youll hafta make the first move. Be prepared to get shot down and looked at like you are crazy ad a prev, but eventually it will happen

 

You could get bumper stickers: "Ask me about the blow job"

 

just go to a bar. Have your wife sit at the bar and you sit some where out of the way. As the night wears on, someone will approch your wife and feel her out....have her tell him she is married and if he says he don't care, have her say what if my husband is here....and go from there.

 

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Strange world.

 

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The strange thing is saying: "My wife" ?!

 

Yea, the whole thing makes me a little nauseated....:ack: :sick2: uke:

 

Im sure it cant really be that difficult.

 

I was telling a friend about this topic. She had a simple solution. She showed me a low cut tee shirt that simply said "Wanna Play?" She is not super attractive, but has nice cleavage. She said she has learned that men are not looking for the most attractive woman, they are looking for the most attractive woman they can have. She said she wore this, short loose skirt, flip flop style leather sandals and ankle chains. Her husband just mulls around the bar and watches the attention she gets. She has had men feel her up under the table go to bed with her that night. When they proposition her she tells them she has a husband but they have an agreement where they can date other people. Some have offered to let him watch.

mature couple, if you go through with this, be sure to come back and tell us in great detail how it went, OK?

 

what kind of people does your wife like?

 

She prefers a gentle person who would be kind to her. She is not into being treated roughly of talked down to. He should also be rather well endowed. That feeds both of our fantasies!

 

My husband and I find couples and singles on the internet occasionally. The singles are usually one time meetings, but if we really like a couple, we will continue the relationship and even go on holiday with them. We like to go on holiday with another couple. Then we can relax and just enjoy ourselves.

We have been on holiday a few times and found singles to have fun with. How we go about this depends on what we are after. If we are looking for a man, it’s easy. We just go to a bar that caters to the clientele we are looking for and then I just sit at the bar looking sexy. I’m fortunate to be fairly nice looking and slim. Finding girls is a little more difficult

 

what d you mean by well endowed? do you mean rich?

 

Why doesn't your wife take the initiative? Can't think of a simpler solution and yet it doesn't come up in the whole thread. Can it be we're just resigned to the idea that women need to be propositioned or approached by men but not the opposite? Even among open-minded swingers?

 

I agree that bars a good place, where there is music, my wife will usually ask someone she likes to dance,which is always a good start

 

Big dick!

 

I'm into watching a wife that enjoys a "bigger one" also, but I'm single, so...........

 

I'd say have the wife dress seductively and flirt openly with you nearby. If a guy you two like is bold enough to carry it on with her in your presence, have her invite him for a little fun. Should speed it up. Just have rules in mind like condoms use, no cameras, no this or that etc

 

When we were in the open stage of our marriage, my wife had no problem meeting me at work (with visiting sales reps) and at bars when her offfice crowd went to happy hour. Her smile and body language let desirable men know she was approachable. Of course, we live in an urban area, so it was easier for a beautiful woman to make contacts.

 

Some of the women would wear, an ankle bracelet of chain, as a sign of a hot wife.