Please be aware that ChristopherP was kicked off kasamba.com and some other sites for scamming his clients. Careful!
Hmmm...dkth, I've given lots of advice to lots of folks on this forum, and a major part of my advice seems to have turned out to be quite legit--I have used Tarot and I Ching as oracular tools in the past, but finally decided those oracles had changed from being useful tools to being impediments--but if you'd like a second, third, or even fourth opinion from a psychic operating without any oracles, PM me. Here is what I see before I've heard your story: Your problem probably seems more difficult than it really is. And as one who has been through several different and fascinating kinds of hell, I might be able to give you some needed perspective.