true love at 14

I have been "in love" in the forever kind of way many times....each time whether it was he or I eventually things changed for one of us and the relationship ended, have fun with being "in love" however you describe it. I know that with the majority of those people we probably could have made it,if we had really wanted that, but we would have never progressed beyond a certain point together.

Love everyday and everyone and every partner you ever find...just don't base all of your existence with that person, maintain a life outside of them. Some times at such a young age, that can happen really easily.

That's my definition right now anyways, when you can exist as both the individual, the partner and the couple.... really they should all be diffrent things.

 

LITTLE FLOWER - at 14 it was infatuation and not true love.
There will be many more loves for you in the years ahead.

Another thing - your boyfriend shared a deep bond with the girl he met - their fathers had both died. They needed to share their grief with each other, snd that is something you could not give him. I have been there - my wife of many years died suddenly, and it was very therapeutic for me to talk with someone who had been through the same experience. Recently, I have had deep, emotional conversations with a long time friend who lost his wife recently. I shared with him my experiences, and he found hearing that what he was going through was not uncommon to be very helpful. Another friend who lost his wife to cancer checked on the internet and found an old high school girlfriend he had lost track of, and found her - they are now married.

Don't blame your former boyfriend - losing a parent is one of the most traumatic things that can happen to a child.

 

sweet get to know him real good tho, for at 14 now, he will change rapidly every day.. we all change everyday as we learn about ourselves and life, you might get older and find out your ways have parted but you still share one room

 

I'm very happy for you but what you're describing sounds more like infatuation. I'm not sure if anyone else has said more about it..

I know when I'm infatuated I want to be with that person all the time. Love sort of proves itself, and when you're comfortable letting go and letting the person come back of their own accord. It's not about always being together or doing things together.

 

i got a girlfriend when i was only in third grade... now im married to her and im outta college

 

It's more than possible. I fell in love with my ex-girlfriend at 13 and I thought we were going to be together forever. I have yet to come close to loving anyone like I loved her.

 

Aww, that's sweet! I've always believed in young love. :dance:

 

I met my boyfriend when I was 14. We've been dating for 4 years... Times have been rough in parts and right now we're going through another 'phase' but we love each other and we've stuck through it. I don't know if we'll be together forever, but I certainly think I could live with putting up with him for that long.

 

thank you so much for all your feed back
as i said, we are broken up now, very painful.
but i know i will love again.
happy yule and merry christmas xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

Merry Christmas, Little Flower, and may your life's journey be filled with happiness and love.

 

true love at 14 is possible but not likely. things change so fast when youre that age. in any case good luck to yall

 

People who relate astrology to relationships generally don't have the intellectual capacity to fathom true love ever, never mind at 14.

 

beautifully said, flower.
it's very sad about you and your boyfriend, but it's part of the plan and there is reason for it.
i like to believe that i am in love with my nicholas right now. i've backed out twice when things started to get rough, but nick is always the one to try and resolve it and let us get on with our lives. we've been together for nearly a year now and even though i'm only 15 and he's 13, i know i'm in love with him. he means the world to me and i've learned much from our relationship. i wish you luck, little flower, in your future relationships.

jah bless.

 

Oh what do you know brother?You eat pumkins!I'm just kidding...Every one that you will ask sister will tell you his/her different opinion!I do believe in true love!I do believe in true love at 14!I am 14 years old and I live it...Well, I don't know if the boy that I love is in love with me too, but I'm just happy to love him!It's good to love a person, but it's much better to love all the people and to know that they respect and love you too!That's the point!

 

i didnt read all the posts but i agreed with a few pple.

anyway what i wanted to say was that ive known pple who have met their "true love" at age 14 and stayed with them. 2 couples actually. they were all extremely messed up pple. cheated on each other a lot, werent happy at all, believed the other one belonged to them, had a lot of guilt issues ("its your fault i didnt have fun when i was younger"). i remember this guy kept asking for a 3some with his gf when she really really didnt want that (and me neither). they were frustrated pple that felt that they owed something to their school sweetheart and couldnt get out of the relationship.

on the other hand, i know a very happy couple who met up when they were like 12. but they werent a couple for all those years, they had other lovers, and lost contact for a long time. but now its a cute story to tell cuz they did always fancy each other.

 

That's weird, but also happy...Wish they'll be together 4 ever!(im talking about the last couple)

 

its always true love at our age, it just probably wont last. like, I love my girl friend, will it last for the rest of our lives? I hope so, but I'll just have to wait and see

best of luck sister