ok I like my str8 friend wait scratch that I love him, and I told one of my other friend's (Robyn) that I liked him. Well me and Robyn (Robyn's a girl btw) were talking about how much I loved my str8 friend Sebastian, So one day I called him up, I mean we're not close and I got his # from a friend. So I called him we talked for hours that night , and before I knew it that weekend I was @ his house hooking up with him. He tells me he loves me and every-thing but the thing is my female friend Robyn is going out w/ him and they have to brake up b/c she's moving, she still likes him, I like him, he likes us both. I don't get it. And last night he was begging me to kiss him in P.E. and he promised he was comming today but last night on the phone, he was depressed and today he didn't come to school and I can tell you that b/c I'm on the school computer writting this right now. Can n-e one help me out. Because I've been hurt so much I just need him. Please ,please help me. And BTw he has alot of problems w/ Depression and things like that so I pray that that has nothing to do with the fact that he's not here today. I'm so confused and depressed some one please help!!!!!!!!
It sounds like you are over dramatizing the situation. Take three deep breaths, relax and take three more. What are the facts. 1) you like a boy he likes you to the point of kissing you at P.E. (which is so cool btw.) 2) he likes a girl, robyn, who is going to be out of the picture soon, so what. 3) he suffers from depression. A lot of GLBT kids do. They don't make it easy for us. What are you going to do? Fretting doesn't help. When you do see him next talk about what he can do to work with his depression. There may be free or sliding scale counceling in your area. Check with The United Way in your area, for local services that they support. That is the first and most important step that your bf can take. I believe you when you say that you love him. And I know how dramatic that feels. You can't go to peices every time he doesn't come to school. Try to keep your head. .
