whats up everyone, im a guy, 17 years old and my parents never really gave me the sex talk. i learned pretty much all i know from friends sex stories and porno, but i am still a virgin. all ive done is make out and petting :& my parents divorced and i have to live with my mom, so i don't really have a father figure to talk about personal things with. so, i come here. 1) is it common for guys my age to shave their pubic hair? mine is somewhat shaggy, but should i be shaving it all off? or just trimming it? and how long? just the thought of shaving my scrotum is enough to make me wince. 2) how often do other guys masturbate? again something i can't really ask my friends, bit too personal. i masturbate about 4-5 times a week, i think this is way too often. what about some other guys? 3) im kind of a shy/observant guy, i stand out because of my shoulder-length hair and being 6'5". a girl i was making out with was feeling my member up, and a week later she wrote on the girls bathroom that i have a large cock. now, for some reason, girls don't seem to want to talk to me. i don't want to get to know a girl just to fuck her, i would want a (somewhat) lasting relationship. any tips on what girls want to hear after an odd predicament like mine? thanks in advance everyone
1) some guys do, some guys trim, some guys shave. It's all what you're most comfortable with. Shaving, well, when it grows back it'll itch for the first while, til you get used to shaving. Just to warn you of that. But really, it's your pubes, your decision. 2) 4-5/week sounds pretty damn normal to me 3) over 6' and long hair? *Drools* ahahahaha, er. Well, that was pretty fucking shitty of her to write about you in a bathroom. If you happen to have any chick friends I'd ask them to go in and erase it or scratch it out or write over it or something. It's probably not even related to the bathroom thing, girls seeming like they aren't talking to you. And even if it was related, it's probably not because of your size (most girls, who think size has any importance, prefer larger), moreso the fact that you made out with a chick who was skanky enough to write about it in a freakin bathroom.
Look dude, everything you are goin through is normal. Every guy at your age start to get curious about their body. I think I was about your age when I first got the notion to shave. Just make sure you stretch out that sack. I would suggest using a beard trimmer with the guard on, that way you dont hafta worry. I jerk off as many as 3 or 4 times a day, plus I live with my girlfriend and get laid. So if anything you are not jerking off enough. I guess the girls are scared of your cock. Just tell everyone how small it is, I guess dont really know what to say about that, girls have always loved my big cock
You shouldn't think that talking about masturbation with your friends is too personal. Really man, its not a big deal amongst guys, we ALL do it. Its fun to be able to talk about sex with your close friends, I'm sure they wouldn't be weirded out.
but some peopel are a little more conservative than others... I have two best friends and one I talk about sex with quite often, the other it's come up maybe a half dozen times and I've been really close friends with her for four years now... hell, I knew her back in kindergarden.
well as far as the masturbation goes, even though i go a couple days without it, my penis still gets pretty red. i havent gone through any phase where i jerk off multiple times a day, never have. is this also normal?
multiple times a day or not just depends on libido, everyone has different libido's/sex drives, that's totally normal. I have no idea if a penis gettting red is completely normal during masturbation every time, but I imagine it is... I mean, friction on skin inevitably turns it red, yes? I'm assuming you use friction as a method of mastubation mind you...
1. Shaved, trimmed, natural, it's all normal. 2. That's quite normal, hell even twice a day would be normal. If you get to 4 times a day though, that's when it might start to get a bit much. 3. They want to hear what you actually have to say, if you say fake things to get a girl to like you, eventually your true self is gonna come out, and that could be really bad, or really good. Find a girl who has similiar interest to you so that you can talk to her about stuff.
Many women admire taller guys. Also, count yourself lucky to have a large cock. Mines is 6" and average, but I hang at 4.5" when soft. I've had an ex girlfriend get me to show a new girlfriend of hers, and she said "I told you it was big" to her friend, and I hate my cock size. I'd like to be about 8" long and thicker. Thickness is what hits the spot anyway, and the length just delivers the thickness. By saying this about myself, I'm trying to point out that all women have different opinions as to what is big. She thought that I'm "big", and I'm just a hair above average when measured from the pubic bone ( 6.75", the correct way). My low amout of body fat just makes more of it visible than the average guys these days. Well, lets just assume that you truly are well endowed. With younger girls, fewer girl will admire you large cock, but some still will, and those that do, will absolutely love it. Trust me, not all girl prefer larger cocks, but some do. Then as you get older, you'll find that women in their 20's,30's, and 40's can put a large cock to good use. Cock size opinions vary from person to person. As we all know, we all have different opinions. The two factors in a woman's opinion that play the largest role, are the size of her vagina, and her preference for friction/pressure and her pain/pleasure threshold. All of that varies from woman to woman, along with fantasies and expectations.
Shaving your pubic hair is someting you should talk to your girlfriend (when you get one) about. It is just like beards or facial hair - some girls like it, some don't. Honor your girl by doing what she likes. Masturbation at 17 is a normal thing to do - it relieves sexual tension and gets you in touch with your sexual organs - you learn how they operate. What is too much? It is up to the individual guy - do it when you feel the need, but don't get addicted to it, so much that you won't be able to have a normal relationship with a female when that happens. And if your penis starts to get sore, you know you are doing it too much. When I was 17, if a girl wrote on a bathroom stall that I had a big dick, I think I would have gotten luckier than I actually did when I was your age. She is a slut to do that, but it is certainly better than if she said you were abnormally small. Keep it up.
Tell me about it. My libido/drive is too high I think, but I can't help it. I want to fuck all the time, and if I can't (can't because my fiance lives in a different country for another month at least!) I jack off at least once a day, if not 2-3 times. My cock doesn't get red, but it does get sore and has hurt some this week especially. But I think I'm fucked up because I don't mind the pain all that much lol
heh, well, if you train yourself to associate that pain with the turnon/pleasure of masturbation, of course you won't mind it all that much :tongue: christ, apparently my libido is too high. My current beau is the second boyfriend in a row to tell me he wants to slow down sexually so we can get to know one another Sex once a week keeps me calm, but we only get to see each other once every week or two and rarely when alone (damn roommies) so, yeah. *sigh*
