What's It Worth?

I'm sorry, you misunderstood, and yet again I have trouble wording things. Let me try to clarify. /sigh... ok here it goes.

Have you ever met someone that brought the very best out of you? Or, have you ever met someone that was the only person that you could respond to affectionately? Actually thats bogus fluff, let me start over.

Imagine being the most independent person in the world and you do what you want when you want and how you want free from all attachments. That would be the best thing ever right? To have such freedom. Imagine what that feels like. Now imagine that a person could make you feel that way ( Of course the theory is now in conflict, because you have an attachment that makes you feel the same as if you were free with no attachments, but whatever cause thats philosophical bs right ?).

Anyway, now imagine that you are the person that makes someone feel that way. Thats cool. After all, if you are with someone, and you don't make them feel good about themselves, you're wasting your time right?

Or maybe we all just think way too much...

But whatever

 

Okay, I get it now. In fact, I empathize with it

 

I have no idea how you got the man being the victim, out of my post. I hope like hell there is no victim when I have sex.
You're totally right though about the balance of power line I was trying to feed you. I heard it once and it made perfect sense, but the way you say it, I'm not so sure.
I love the "dole it out" line. Your so right about that too, but there will come a time when the tables will turn. My wifes nearing the 35y/o mark and her sexual apitite is going to overtake mine soon.

 

"I just feel they should end mutually. For me, they have never ended mutually. I have just begun to feel cared for when the other party decided the grass is greener elsewhere ..."

See, this is the problem. They almost NEVER end mutually, for ANYBODY. It may sound good, theoretically, but it almost never happens.

And I'm not saying that you should be necessarily looking around for a husband. What I am saying is that if a guy really cares about you, loves you (and vice-versa) being separated from you is something that he just doesn't want to contemplate, can't stand the thought of. When you really love someone that person kind of becomes part of you, and when they're gone you kind of feel like you've lost a piece of yourself. Real love isn't something so calculated that you can just call it a day and say goodbye to each other, and call it quits.

 

$27.46 as of today, 12-16-06. Adjust that for inflation.

 

About the "victim" thing ... I was being purposefully extreme (or so I seem to remember).
Or else I was summing up what I meant in one quick, easy, and powerful word to avoid detracting from my post with a lengthy in-text explanation. (I prefer to explain in a seperate post, after the fact).

I hope there are no victims in ordinary sexual relationships ... but the more and more I experience them I'm not so sure ...

 

Nice Banjo-uke by the way!

here's mine, sorry to post off topic.