My fucked up life AGAIN!

this is going to sound so stupid but I liked my st8 friend Sebastian (mistake #1) and then my best friend knew I liked him but then she asked him out. They went out and then she moved out. I hooked up w/ him he says he loves me and I'm the only guy he could like. Well he has problems I help him out, and we start bonding really great. He promises me once he gets his head straight he will go out w. me. Ok that weekend my friend Colton invited me and Sebastian to his house. Colton's bi. I go there I pretended to sleep and Colton makes out w/ Sebastian. I wake up me and COlton get an argument. then I go to sleep and Colton tells me all they did was talk but Sebastian says other wise. Now this week. Me and Sebastian have been falling apart. Like today he got mad @ me for no reason @ all. And he doesn't talk to me. And it hurts me. I have no idea what's wrong w/ him. I've tried to call him so much. I just love him . And he likes my other friend Brittany but she's my only REAL friend b/c she said he was not doing ANY-THING to her because she knows I like him and now I feel like dying. I don't know how to escape this pain. I feel like drinking or getting high or something. I have a feeling I'm not gonna find my knight in shinning armor. Y must all guys be jerks?

 

I have no experience whatsoever with guys so I might help much, but this is my point of view:
Stuff like this just happen, you can't control it. Just forget this guy, and don't do anything silly. I know it might seem difficult, but you'll end up hurting yourself more if you keep on insisting with him. This guy seems to have psychological problems, and it will not do you any good to hang around with him. Just forget him.

 

this is ridiculous.

drama-town.

 

yo mushi, dont just write it off as drama.

im sorry man that this shit is goin down, just try not to hang on to him too much. ive fallen for many friends of mine who might have been gay, or whatever, and theyve shown signs of not being interested and ive clung on even harder, and it just amkes it worse and worse.

im learning that I need to try and be more realistic about relationships- whjat I mean is, i now try to think "okay, is this going to really work? or am I just being desperate/clinging onto something uselessly and mindlessly.

i know it seems like a lot to you now, but you might want to try thinking about the situation differently, and trying to move on.
good luck,
dylan

 

so he "promises he'll go out with u once hes got his head straight" and then he makes out with someone else? he just doesnt sound very interested in u. doesnt make him a horrible person; he just cant make up his mind and u're the one suffering.


dont do anything stupid cuz u're probably worth much more than that guy, and he should be sorry he doesnt have u.