I need to know if he is gay! Help!

Hey guys/girls! Well, ill get to the point...in one of my posts, i wrote this...

Well, me and my friends ( they dont now im gay/bi or anything lie that ) we always joke around and slap eachothers asses saying " good game " nothing sexual at all ( just for laughs ). Well me and my other friend always play a little more. Like, if u say " get me a drink " and they dont want to they say " suck it ". Well me and this friend actually say ok...nothing happens.

Example:It was me and John ( the one who mite be bi? ) and Dan on a couch and me and dan were playing video games. I was in the middle. John asked for my fone and tried to grab it so before he could i put it under my boxers and on my dick, so he wouldnt get it. He went in my shorts and grabbed it and almost toched my penis. He has also has touched my balls before when i showed them to him. And when he sleeps i put my cock on his face and he doesnt get mad when he wakes up. And hes the type of kid that would get angry. He always shows me his dick. And he knows i get boners when i toche his face with my dick.

One time i was gonna see what he would do but before i said anything he said im not sucking your dick. I didnt even say anything sexual or try to do anything.


Im so confused on what to do. Any ideas on what to do? Is he atleast bi?

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Well, since then, me and my friend have had other encounters like these...but ill get to the one that makes me wonder the most.

A couple of weeks ago, me john and dan had just finished smoking a joint, and went to get some food. We were in the place, high as shit, and John said " i kind of want to suck a dick ".... we give him odd stares..." just kidding "... but the way he said it makes me wonder?...


I get a vibe he mite be into it....what should i do....i want to make a move, but i dont know what to do...any suggestions?

please help

thanks

 

It sounds like you and he are verry close.....just look him in the eyes and ask him...if he gets upset , you could say you were just kidding !!!

 

If you are old enough to start exploring your sexuality, then you should start to think about being more responsible.
deliberatly touching someone else with your genitals without their consent is sexual assault.
if you where an older male doing this to a female there would be an up roar, but there really isn't any difference.
in a world where people of all ages are being taken to court, I would be very careful.
just because your friend has touched your cock and balls before, doesn't make that any more right
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I too, would just ask him

 

Sometimes words can't express what we want to get across. If you guys are close enough to sleep together and hang with each other a lot maybe your bodies can speak better than your words. Could you start by hugging/wrestling/playing? If both of your bodies are responding and it feels like you may want to go further then it might be time to ask..."is it ok with you if we go further" One of you is gonna have to break the ice by asking...just make sure the stage is set right for the asking...and be prepared for whatever answer your buddie gives.