Female Masturbation: An Insight

lol why cant i have a gf like you girls :'(

 

I like some porn. But for the most part I do better with visualizing my own, it's more fun that way.

 

Sorry to be a guy replying to this thread, (that's not what you were after), but it got me thinking.

My male friends seem to be mostly into straight forward porn, or actual porn stars; large breasts, blondes, tanned.

But I've always fantasized about girls who are a bit left of the middle. I'm much more turned on by the thought of a 'Gothic' girl, or a short girl with very white skin, and plenty of eye makeup. I get off over alot of female musicians too, who have no intention of being "sexy" or a sex-image in anyway. I find much more pleasure thinking about a girl in a situation that has nothing to do with sex, and is not trying to look "sexy".

Is this strange for a guy?

 

same here.... i try thinking about things but it doesn't do anything really

 

It's nice to hear that guys want to see that too. I get kind of sick of the stuff out there.

 

Do I masturbate to porn? Once in a while if the mood strikes, and the type of porn depends on my mood; Sometimes it is the basic MF sex act, and other times it is bondage or hardcore.

Do I fantasize when I masturbate? Usually, and it tends to involve my husband doing incredibly obscene things to me, or thinking about someone watching me.

I find it interesting that some men think it takes a woman a long time to orgasm from masturbating. Actually we are no different than a man when it comes to masturbation, in that the goal is orgasm and we rarely waste time getting there. I can orgasm in under 2 minutes, and unlike men I will orgasm again about 30 seconds later and can keep going for several more. Yes, it's great to be a woman!

 

I love girls,

My husband does not enjoy mainstream porn and prefers "real" women. He would rather see a women with a few extra pounds really enjoying herself, than watch a "perfect" woman faking it. It is all about your preferences, and I see nothing wrong with yours.

 

As a teen, I had no idea that women masturbated. Buddy's rumored about it but I wasn't sure.
Then after I was married for almost a year, my wife decieded to show me what she did when she was horny and I wasn't there.
I was like bouncing off the walls.


And I still like to watch women masturbating, although there needs to be a better word for it.

Let me expand on the subject with a Q for the ladies:
Do you smell/lick your fingers (or object) during/after masturbating?

 

Well, physics,

In answer to your questions:

No, I don't really care for seeking out porn to watch, but do sometimes watch it if my boyfriend happens to bring a pornographic DVD home. And I'm not really sure if the porn subconsciously turns me on -or if my boyfriend and I just simply get turned on with each other in such a setting, to either make love or masturbate together.

I really enjoy masturbating, but never really considered my fantasies as pornographic. While masturbating, I may be fantasizing about myself in a grand Napoleonic ballroom setting, not even sexual -and suddenly have an intense orgasm. And sometimes I will fantasize about myself being professionally serviced by a line-up of bearded and sweaty ancient Greek warriors and orgasm after I've finally had enough.

I never masturbate by pysical stimulation alone. But private, erotic thoughts are always best when teased and delicately stroked along to perfection.

My boyfriend and I are very private about our lovemaking, and masturbation addictions, yet feel strangely compelled to seek out the fellowship of like-minded others, on the internet, who find autoerotica to be truly great, and satisfying, sex.

 

i rarely watch porn when masturbating, but i do like porn, just dont have much. i think us girls have better imaginations and can visualise things better than you guys can.

 

Excuse me I hope you know I visualize quite well. Very well in fact. And I like all the stuff I have to fantasize over

 

On rare ocasions, I like to read stories, or watch a little porn, but I don't masturbate while doing so. I watch it first, then go masturbate. or I just browse the love and sex forums...