Engaged couple or married

Me and My fiance are about to get married next year. He doesnt want me to have any interaction with my friends. What should I do?

 

Are you serious? That's fucking ridiculous.

 

Theres this one guy I been friends with for over 2 years before i met him and i miss my friends and i wanna see him just as friends.. nothing more.. nothing less.

 

I say bite his dick off.

 

i tried.. its to hard....^_^

 

My suggestion is to ask him why he doesn't want you to be with your friends.

 

he said he doesnt trust them.... its a universal excuse of i dont trust YOU

 

Bite it off.

 

dump him..

 

Blatently, you tell him to go screw himself and find someone that will make you happy.

 

If you don't dump him now you will get divorced eventually.


When a spouse is that controlling, you might be able to handle it now, but it WILL come to a head. People don't change in that regard. Besides if he is being this controlling now, then what about the behavior of his that you don't even know about now?

 

Dump His Sorry Ass!!!

 

Hm.. should I be mean and leave him at the alter?

 

No, you shouldnt.

 

thats the meansest thing i can think of to get back at him. I mean i aint like that at all. I cant let others get hurt. Lets just say i will save my worst enemies life and risk mine in the process

 

I think you should be mean and cut his testicles off with a hacksaw.

 

this is why 20 year olds shouldn't get married. i wish you the best of luck!

 

Age has nothing to do with it...

I think you should listen to everyone & break up with him. Leaving him at the alter sounds like a fun idea. But you might get scared when the time comes & change your mind. I don't mean to make any harsh judgements, because I don't know you personally. But you seem to be very submissive and a relationship where he doesn't want you to have any interaction with your friends may very well turn out to be a physically AND emotionally abusive relationship. I wouldn't want you to be stuck in something like that where you are being beaten and threatened to be murdered. That happened to my mother...either the guy is too paranoid for his own good, or he's abusive...or sociopathic..or all 3. Just get out while you can. Don't do this to yourself.

 

He said i can hang with my friends now only if he can meet them first..

 

That still is very controlling. You're not his property or anything. He shouldn't be able to tell you what you can or cannot do.