i have a gf..adn she LOVES it when i kiss her neck.. i heard alot of ppl told me that girls like it when u nibble on there ears? how does that work? where would i do that..or how would i ? are there any other ways to make a girl feel good she is my first real gf, and like i wanna try some new things on her
Come on, folks, help the poor boy! OK, I'm no expert, but here are a few general pointers that seem to work for me. Lobes: suck lightly, VERY light use of teeth can be good here. Remember, the point is to caress and make her feel good. Rim: extend your moist tongue, and very lightly trace the outline of the rim, all the way around, SLOWLY. Then if she likes. blow softly on the moist part to cool it. NB! see my caution on blowing, below. Tragus: (look it up: http://education.yahoo.com/reference/gray/subjects/subject?id=229) The most sensative parts are in the valleys at the top or bottom. Use the tip of your tongue. I would NOT try for the wet tongue straight in the ear. Tends to be gross. Cautions: DO NOT BLOW HARD INTO HER EAR! This is unpleasant. Be extra careful at all times not to do this! Also, be careful about any sounds you make. What would normally be very quiet speach can be deafeningly loud when you're by her ear. Again, she will NOT like it if you make her ears ring! You might try cradling her head with your hand. Reach around, with your fingers around the back of her neck, and gently hold her head while you kiss. Also, you can turn your fingers up into her hairline as she gets into it. Very intimate! Other fun things to do with your clothes on: Her fore-arms: kiss/lick/nibble on them, somewhat like an ice-cream cone. The soft inner part, on the palm side of her wrist. Finger tips and the inside of her elbows too. In general, read her body language. You'll know if you're doing something good if she "melts." Just remember that all of this is powerful stuff, and it tends to light fires. So think about it, and resolve ahead of time how far you want things to go. Things can get out of control quickly, and it's almost impossible to make good decisions in the "heat" of the moment. Good luck!
I've been with a girl very much like that--exquisitely sensitive neck, ears (and certain parts of her arms too). It can be rather fun to drive her wild that way. You might approach her ears by just starting at her neck and then working over and up... kiss/gently suck/nibble along and then go for the ear lobes and see what works. It can be very gentle stuff; sometimes all I had to do was blow gently on her skin and she'd respond.
YES! Females LOOOOOVE the biting/sucking/nibbling thing. Well, most do. Well, at least me and the females I've spoken to about it, anyways lol. Now, I tend to like certain things depending on my mood at the moment. If I want to get things really heated, I'll be much more aggressive and want the same in return. In this mood, I enjoy nibbling on the outter rim of my partners ear, biting the neck, etc. Females LOVE it when guys do things to their neck. It is a very sensual spot. Generally, it's all about getting to know your partner's body. And it varies among person, so that's why communication is great in bed, as well as being open and willing to learn the body of your lover If you can give your partner goose bumps, you're on the right track!
I've had my ears licked inside and breathed upon. Now that makes me go nuts, but I don't think all girls are for the licking like I am. lol
Ew, I hate having my ears nibbled on. I'm all about the neck for the neck... soft.. tongues and lips, moisture, with the occasional bite thrown in (ok maybe that's just me). Try the back of her neck too, the nape... best from behind, your arms wrapped around her (or one holding her hair out of the way if it's long and not tied up). I'm a big fan of feeling teeth press against me too... gentle or an actual bite, both are fun - but I'm not exactly representative of all women
I just got home from this dudes house that I've wanted to be with for months.. He looked so damn good. When he touched my ear I could have came. If i wasnt drunk i would have raped him, if we hadnt of fooled around anyway. I feel greeeeeat.
I love it when he pulls my hair while doing doggy.. but if you dont wanna go rough.. biting her neck gently.. right under the chin and around will turn her on so much
From what I have read here so far, it just shows that all ladies do not neccesairly like all the same things. And there are lots of variations on any theme. The point is to expieriment and have her give you input of what she likes and does not. There is no point in trying to turn her on if what you are doing is actually turning her off. Some women like teeth and some don't. I know a lady that likes me to bite her on the throat. Good sex of any kind is better with good communication.
