OK, what do you call it when... you're attracted to a person of the opposite gender emotionally, but you don't want to spend your life with them or date them? When you just have interest but in no way want to be with that person? It's not a crush because in a crush you wanna be together with that person.. so...what's it called?
but friendship is different, you like, have no romantic desire. I'm talking just affectionate emotional desire, and maybe a little looks... yet, again, you don't wanna be with them @.@
i would say that you had the hots for someone .....this doesnt nesecarily mean you would want to spend forever dealing with their bullshit ...you are just phisicaly enamored by them ......your totaly fascinated by the idea of doing all kinds of genital gymnastics with said person . cause they turn you on . but you know that emotionaly and intelectualy theres not much to click betwixt yall. well , this is great ,and could provide a more meaningfull experience and piquant memories than a complicated relationship ....it can paradoxicaly be even more satisfying than a love afair based on mutual atributes and interests .
Asexuality? dictionary.com definition: 1. Biology. a. having no sex or sexual organs. b. independent of sexual processes, esp. not involving the union of male and female germ cells. 2. free from or unaffected by sexuality: an asexual friendship. The second one seems to fit.
sounds like friendship to me, just one that has a little extra interest, but not enough to make something of it besides friendship. to be honest, EVERY friend (not acquaintance, friend) is someone that i would have sex with. that's just how i am about my friends, it's a natural outlet for my affection. not that i fuck every friend i have, just that it's always an option, should they want to. i don't know why. but i love my friends, few though they are, very much. i enjoy them so entirely that it's just a natural attraction. but i'd prefer their friendship, since sex is easy to get, friends are way more difficult.