3-some for the first time

I am in a relationship, my SO has no clue that I have been asked in a 3some, and I don't plan on tellling him. I am not bi, and the woman is not bi either and is (according to my male friend) not interested in other women, nor am I, but I would not be averse to experimenting if she was willing, but my main thing is to have fun with my male friend and share him with his wife, toys and all... you only live once, right... So, I got word recently that she has agreed to it, it took me months to say yes to him, he asked me early on when I met him... we did hit it off quite well, we fooled around but never had sex. We are very very attracted to each other and I know it will be good. Has anyone ever had a 3some MFF without the females being bi and doing it with each other? This couple has done a MMF and it went very well, my male friend and his friend did not touch each other, this was about pleasing his wife.... and they did, he told me about it... thoughts? I am new to this forum, and I joined just to glean some info about what I am about to do... I am excited but shy about this, I can't wait for it to happen though, something new to spice up my boring life!!!

 

nope, every 3some i was in was mutual..equal all the way round
altho everytime 1 of the girls was straight..& 1 bi
altho the straightness never prevented loving equaly
but those were 3 way relationships..and not just about pleasing 1 or the other..
but they were definately enjoyable
i couldnt imagine a lopsided triangle where someone was at the apex and the others were just there toplease him/her.. but thats just me

 

It's probably a good idea to run that past your SO. I mean, isn't that CHEATING on him if you DON'T tell him? Unless, of course, you have talked about it before and he DIDN'T want to know if you ever did anything with anyone else (which, I wouldn't imagine why he WOULDN'T want to know who his partner is sleeping with).

If you're bored with your SO and want someone else, maybe it's a good idea for you to end it with him before you go off and hurt him by "omitting the truth"...just my opinion.

 

Just sounds like a complicated affair to me. Your way of condoning it? Why don't you just get a girl for your husband? Maybe he will let his wife come over. I just don't believe in the whole cheating thing. If you can't be honest then why do it. You should probably think about just leaving your SO considering that you just want to fuck another man behind his back, which isn't love.

 

i think all girls are attracted to girls! I would say that 85% of woman have had expirances but never tell, I think its cheating, but cant say if its a wrong move? we are not ment to be in life long relationships by disighn, and that why humans cheat, not to get offthe subject read the book the mating mind by richard dawkins, but thinks if you care about your SO you would tell him! I also think that sexual tention between you and the other guy is also a factor.

 

Dancer Annie seems to have some wise advice concerning you cheating.......she's covered it.

For the threesome........a FMF threesome is a threesome with women that do not sexually pleasure eachother.....

a MFF (with the F's side by side) is a threesome where the women do pleasure eachother.

I don't mean to be so "politiacally correct", but from that you may be able to read and learn more about threesomes. Yes, threesomes among str8 people are very common, but usually the males don't touch each other and just please the woman. It happens with women that they don't touch each other, but bi females are more common than bi males.......... or atleast more accepted by society.

 

I think it messed up you are going to screw around behind your mans back...

 

this is CHEATING

NOT okay. NEVER okay.

i dont know who you think you're fooling!!!
your guy deserves someone better.

 

If your life's so boring you'd best change your partner or something. I agree sex without telling SO is cheating and not on.

 

Cheating? Probably, but only you know that for sure.
Only you know if you have discusses this with him or not.
Anyway, that isn't what you asked about.

You asked if anybody else has been in a guy/girl/girl threesome where the women didn't please each other. Yes, I have. I will say that I was a little disappointed that they didn't explore each other, but that's what they wanted.

It was still HOT.

 

to point out that my question was not a question as to whether I am cheating or not, my question was about a FMF, thanks Raw and Natural This couple has done the opposite and the two males did not touch each other, it was all about pleasuring my guy's wife, which they did, my guy told me about it, we are very open when we talk. My guy, which is what I will call him, told me that his wife is not interested in other women, nor is he turned on by two women... but I think that might be a little white lie on his part, because he recently told me he saw a video of two women kissing, and he said that it is the first time he was turned on, only because he said that one of the girls kissed the way I did (sloppy, full tongue, langorously, however you want to explain it).... To continue, has anyone have any hints, tricks, to make this thing the more pleasurable, keeping in mind that it is to be a FMF (but if his wife wants to explore, I might be open to it, but only at that time will I know if I will enjoy it or not.... I am not averse to experimenting, but I since I have never tried, I will only know then!!!

 

and it was totally spontaneous, the man and I had been hoping for weeks now that his wife would initiate it soon... but she had not mentioned it to him since she agreed to it... i visited the couple recently for a short visit and less than one hour before i had to leave, it happened and it was a truly awesome experience, leaving me wanting more... i am not bi, and i understand that neither is she, but right away she was touching my legs and breasts and licking my breasts.. and it was truly awesome to have both of them on me, but it was mainly us on him, and he was in second heaven, it was really really fun... too bad we did not have more time, but I hope to have a repeat experience to go further..... what fun !

 

Wow, sounds hot! You'll have to keep us updated.

 

So I'm guessing it's cool for your man to go off and participate in threesomes without telling you... right? If not, then you better hope he doesn't find out. You know how people can be

 

I really hope for your man's sake, that he finds out

 

I've had an MFM. That was fun! But I was called a slut in the morning by my friend's sister. Stupid bitch! It was none of her business.

 

I agree that MMF threesomes are the best -- the only thing better than having two guys at your beck n' call is to have more than two guys doing the same for you ;-). Your friend's sister is obviously not your friend, and she's probably just jealose over her own lame-ass life. Do your own thing and have fun!

 

threesomes are fun - whats not to like?

 

if everyone knows what's going on and is hip to the scene, it can always be a good time.....miscommunications can bite ya in the arse though if you're not careful

 

My experience with this couple, like I said, was awesome. I never thought that I like another woman touching me, since it never happened to me before,but I didn't mind, nor did she, and it excited the man to the max. What I like about this man, is that we can talk about anything, like, what did he like best, what he liked least, how did he like it when I did this, or that. I never met a man that I could be so blunt with. Let's just say, that I am learning alot as to what a man likes done to him, because he will tell me ... We know that this will not be a regular thing, but we all want to do it again.... what would be cool, is if they invited the guy that she had the MFM with, what does that make it, MFMF?