my girlfriend and are virgins. if she gave me head without a condom, as we have no stds. is that bad? and is it bad to make out after she gives me head (without cumming). or should she get a drink of something first?
As long as you are clean (everywhere) and have no STD's or infections, there should be no health issues with oral sex. A drink of what? Do you mean something like Lysol? No not really, but if shes just thirsty, get her a drink.
The only risk with oral sex is STD's--nothing along the lines of pregnancy or any other health hazards (gagging aside if you're not cautious). If you both _know_ you don't have STD's, you have nothing to worry about. Making out afterwards is fine too. Anything sexual is messy anyways, hehe, but if you're making out and kissing each other anyways, you're sharing any germs you have as it is No worries from the getting head part.
also i think itd be kind of embarresing if you were to suggest she clean her mouth before she kisses you
Good early age questions. And always remember that the whole rest of her body is great for licking, nuzzling, kissing and feeling. And (if STD-free) no dangers,unless her getting too turned on troubles you. As for drinking, the natural juices of bodies are the best. And - if she's giving you head, are you returning the favor (altho it's best if you go down first.) Talk about drinking.........
there is nothing wrong with kissing her after she performs oral sex...my BF does it all the time...he feels that it is like showing appreciation for my performance...and as long as both of ya'll know that your both clean, there is no risk without a condom...a girl cant get pregnant by swallowing cum...just thought i would let ya know
^^ hahaha ^^ very scared pple. i had a friend who did that. it made me laugh a lot too. it cant feel good for anyone! but i guess thats the reason there ever was fruit-flavored condoms, i dont see what other purpose they have. and yea, to answer the original post, i think anything is acceptable sex-wise as long as u love each other and are careful about stds and contraception. it can be considered "messy" to kiss after going down on someone, but if both pple find it ok, then its not "wrong". just talk about it with her
As long as she's not storing it in the corner of her cheek ready to spit it in your mouth when your lips make contact, it should be ok.
I agree with Crayola 100%...if you love someone then just about anything goes...love will make you be willing to try almost anything with your partner!! My boyfriend had NEVER went down on a girl until he met me.
if he's tied down, it's quite kinky.... he can't feel as well, so it drives him nuts, then is fun to grab it by the tip and snap it off, then finish him off.... it's fun to be cruel. If you guys are both virgins, don't worry about it.
