I've always wondered this, do they really care or are they like guys and will take what they can get, to an extent?
They do. But to what extent depends on the particular woman in question. To a lot of them, perhaps more so than men, looks are secondary. They are socialized to feel that way. Funny thing, as I grow older, looks become less and less important. Personality and the capacity to be emotionally available are at the top of my list.
Yep, we care Mostly we care about our partner though - who they are, what turns 'em on etc. rather than pure physicality. Unless you're just fuckbuddies, in which case looks and bedroom skills are probably the only reason you two are really together
I'm confused what exactly you came here to learn. "No, you can be overweight and girls will still love you because they don't care about physical appearances?" Yeah, girls care like guys. Maybe not to as great an extent, but its still a factor for most girls, at least initially.
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What do mean? Of course people care about what their partners look like, of course women like being with a man they find sexy and desireable. Here's the really great part of that though: even if you don't start off as being the hottest man on the planet to a gal, if you end up dating chances are with each passing day you get increasingly attractive to her. It's one of those things that gets built up with time, when you get to learn about the depths of their personality, find out the ways in which you're compatible and respect the differences you share. But you asked about pure physicality and yeah, it matters. It matters to EVERYONE, just to varying degrees. I'm sure there are some women out there who don't think about it, who are happy with whatever they end up with but to me, I want someone I find attractive or at the least don't find unattractive. There's a great thread in here about looks: http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=211803
People find different people attractive. If everyone liked the same thing, the world would be a boring place! What's attractive to one person may not be attractive to another! (Look at me, trying to be all wise! :H)
I think in general everyone cares about the whole naked thing, until you can get to the point where the lumps and bumps dont matter - then you know your going to ok!
I had no idea people from the love and sex forums were so bitchy, geez, never again will I make a thread. Yall need to check yourselves and chill out because yall are trippin, seriously relax.
*blinks* babe if you thought this was bitchy, you shouldn't go into the random thoughts forum ever. And you should know that you can't take everyone on here seriously... both sides should relax a little maybe?
I agree... if you think this is 'bitchy' you haven't seen the half of it, haha. Basically, on these forums... if you ask for an opinion, you're going to get an opinion. Of course everybody cares, to some extent, what their partner looks like. I'm not ALL about looks, but I'm a small person and I don't want somebody that makes me feel incredibly tiny... I basically don't want somebody that can take one step over and completely cut me out of the picture. Now, my husband isn't necessarily 'big'... a 5'10 and almost 200lbs, his arms and legs are pretty built, he certainly doesn't have the abs and chest that he used to, but I made him that way and I like it. He complains to me sometimes that cooking him meals every day made him fat, but I tell him it's a natural reaction to getting married because his wife needed something cushy to hang on to at night. Simple as that. I don't know if other girls see him for his pretty face, his well-built arms and legs, or just the fact that he's a bit tubby in the mid-section. I don't care. He's squishy, he's a bit furry, and we fit nicely together. When you love someone enough to stick with them that long, that's what really matters. Not six-pack abs and well-toned arms and legs. When you don't love someone enough to stick with them that long? Well, that's another story. I don't like super-scrawny guys because they aren't very cuddly, but I think the 'scrawny' look can be fucking hot and if I was just looking to get laid, not cuddle, that would be what I'd go for. Something that's visually attractive, but physically, not someone that I'd be very comfy with... 'cause I can be frigid and never cuddle with fuck buddies. I like girls that are smaller (at least shorter) than me, but I'd still fuck a supermodel just to say I did it. I think this subject is really too open to give short opinions and have them sound well thought-out. And so, some people may come across as 'bitchy'.
im sure women want [idealy] to have a paramore that looks good nekid . but from what ive seen , they pick men for their ability to be totaly fooled controled and manipulated .....what turns american women on is the invisible 'victim-sucker' tatoo on the forehead ..