WOW... my fucked up girlfreind situation.

ok so I have recnetly strated dating (as it were at my young age) a nice girl.
so I thought.... ill take you to the begining.

I was whiskey drunk one night walking the streets of my small city's downtown. I had a show to play at 7:30 with a freind of mine who is in a popular emo band around the state.

so im just walking along when I decide it would be a good idea to make a fool of myself. I found two girls one obviously 20 and the other younger, more my age. they were both deep in convorsation as I walked by and I said "I know exactly what you guys are talking about!!" the girls responce was "rock on!!", which I tok to be "fuck off!!" because of the whiskey.... so about 10 minutes down the road I tell my female comrad that I need to hunt down that girl and tell her off (I also thought she was kinda cute)....

so we found her... I said why did you tell me to fuck off, she then explained the situation and I felt like a dumbass. I told her about my show and asked her to go, but she was already going to see my emoish pal.

so I get the gig to come back every thursday with my emo freind and play a few sets and get free drinks and a little dough for the road. To boot I get to see this girl every thursday.

to make an already long story shorter...we are now "going out" (as it were again [ I love that phrase]).

ANYWHO!!!!

so im talkin to her and she turns out to be bi..which is cool with me but, she also likes to date a girl and a boy at the same time. this worrys me.
she also likes one of my x girlfreinds who i am now freinds with again and helped me hook up with her. It would be akward for them to go out to say the least.

she also is very erg..... how to say it "open". she has many guy freinds and hangs out with them alot ( not a problem again it just sorta worrys me). she also dosent seem to be the sort of relationship kind of girl...more shits and giggles. I on the other hand like to be in a relationship.

I like her alot.... not infatuation tho....I just like her. she is someone I could see myslef with if it werent for the non relationship type. we are mostly opposites... she is a tv watching, video game playing house cat... while I am a lets go for a hike, lets get drunk, lets lay on the grass and look at the stars untill 5:00 kind of guy.

now fianlly he big number....

I like her but, I dont like her. should I break up with her?
I am able to get girls but I dont like people so finding one I even LIKe is difficult.

or should I just enjoy my time with her or at least try to until the knot breakes and the rope unwinds?

hsorry its so long
-rydns

 

enjoy your time with her, what have you got to lose?

 

GO with your gut feeling... me I'd let it go..Only knowing what you have said. I understand what you mean about liking her and not liking her... Im not the type of person to string someone along...Or have a string of boyfriends who I liked but didnt like...But thats just me...DO what you feel is best for you...not what I say or anyone else but what you think is best.

 

Honestly I wouldn't get incredibly attached, just hang out however you feel you should hang out. Act in a way you are most comfortable, and if that comfort zone is stretched to far, take some space, and then maybe talk with her.

 

" while I am a lets go for a hike, lets get drunk, lets lay on the grass and look at the stars untill 5:00 kind of guy."


That's absolutely delicious. Go find a girl who agrees with me.

 

wish I could....