What is Your Perfect First Date?

no i just aint shy. oversexed, maybe. but im just a sexual person. but no shame no game right?? and besides it all depends on the person. and before yall start calling me a whore, im the only one of my girlfriends without children and have never had any stds whatsoever.

 

You see, every girl uses the excuse "i'm a sexual person" to have lots of sex with lots of people...

I myself couldn't care less.... you do your thing people... ya ya ya... not gonna judge ya for it...

At the same time... I am much less likely to sleep with a girl who sleeps around, ya know? I'm picky as it is... that doesn't help too much. Dedication is a virtue!

But yes... point being... oversexed!

 

just because a girl has sex dont mean she "sleeps around" not at all. sex on the first date sometimes happens. but how many dates do i actually go on?? not many.

my virginity was taken from me. not that thats any excuse, but if that hadnt happened i probably wouldnt have started having sex at the young age that i did. i was raised to be open, sexually. ran me into some trouble when i was younger but oh well i learned from it. i do think i was lucky not to get anything. i was a dumbass kid. but im careful now. so yeah, im not going to be ashamed of being a sexual person. men sure as hell arent ashamed

i dont know how mucht he womens rights movement actually did for us in that department. it used to be that women couldnt say yes, and if they did they were a whore and tainted somehow. now its like gotten to the point where they cant say no. i dont know. i agree that american culture puts too much emphasis on sex. this generation amazes me, sometimes i forget that im a part of it. but i am so proud of myself that im not a mother. im not a statistic like all the other females my age in this town. so whatever, i have that to be proud of

 

Very true... yet I did not intentionally imply that. Every girl is an individual and I cannot made generalizations...

But out of my personal experience...many girls who have told me that they are "sexual" in that sense have turned out to be rather "very sexual with a lot of people girls"... but bah, I had my fun.... freshman year of college... the memories!

Imagine... I haven't had sex in...hmm... 5 months now, me thinks. I'm doing alright man, allllright.... Gonna pass on that whole casual sex thing... don't work for me too well.

But yet again, you do your thing and I respect you for it. I am sure that not being a mother is something to be proud of. Most people I have met in Arkansas had at least 50 girls drop out of thier highschool while they were there because of pregnancy... terrible, me says.

 

people here start havng kids not long after puberty. and yeah, this town isnt too big on education either. like i go to a continuation school for people to like go back whenever and graduate highschool. almost everyone at my school is like an ex crackhead 30 year old mother of 5. no shit. but i never wanted that. not that other people do, they just dont think. the way they see it they have no choice, and like its just the way things are. but i made my choice. i dont want to ruin my life and my body just yet. im like the only person that sees it that way.

i havent had sex since i was 16 =[

 

Smart thinking.

Poor girl. I'll be 20 in 5 days, so I can say that I haven't had sex since I was 19

 

whereas I agree with all of your arguments after that post

I still think sex on a first date is fucking insane :tongue:

 

Yeah, but don't you refuse to even kiss on the first date?

Sex on the first date would be a bit much for me, 'less I'd known the person a long time and had an opportunity to build up that trust thing. But I do love sex, I just wish I could find a regular partner instead of getting to hop in the sack a couple times and then breaking it off (or having it be broken off by their will) before really getting to explore each other's bodies thoroughly

 

no.

 

I thought we had a conversation where you said you didn't like kissing on the first date

 

kissing and making out are huge differences

 

No, y'think? Never woulda figured that out.

guess I remembered the convo wrong, was probably talking with someone else at the same time or something. I get confused easily

 

In all the world only a female would suggest that having sex on a first date is insane, because no real man would even contemplate such a thought - unless he's a religious nut


Hotwater

 

guess not.

 

Back on topic...LOL

Perfect First Date?

Anything active...go rock climbing, or canoeing, something that doesn't involve seriousness...but just having FUN.

 

I agree that it should be non expensive and fun.

Most men I've been on dates with either:

1) take me to the movies
2) walk on the canal
3) bowling
4) out to eat
5) offer to bring an alcoholic drink of my choice or smoke some kill, under candle lights and listening to music.

I must say that the men that I've dated normally shoot for #5.

 

i've had TONS OF SEX with very few people. i've been on 5 actual dates in my life, those all happened in the course of one summer. yeah, i got laid each time and loved it. i'd been with one guy since i was 14, that's 9-1/2 years of youthful monogamy. so i had some built up. i've had a couple longer terms relationships (while with my husbadn) with women. so, since i was 14, i've had sex with 7 people, 5 of them during one very wild summer, the last of which i married. how many can you say?

i just hate it when a woman seeks some fun and gratification gets looked at like she's a slut for following her instincts. i think that's sexist and foul.

 

I think it's nasty for a dude to do it too

I hate it when chicks try to use that agrument, because typically, the guys calling them out about their sexual activity aren't the ones that are sexist about it (I'm pretty sure that is the case here, I know BSR a fair amount)


and don't go on about instincts either
humans have shit for instincts.

 

i think my ideal first date would be building real u.f.o. space ships in some kind of high tec machine shop.

i don't know, the formalities of dating and the informalities of personal relationships are a two and two i've never been able to put togather and never have.

i've never gotten to know anybody by "dating" and never, as such, "dated".

so i really really wouldn't know.

there are things i like to do, as much by myself as with anyone who knows how to do them, and then pretty much only with those who do.

maybe a long walk out in the woods. i've done that. both alone many times. and with one special other person. more then once.

had a pretty much good mutual gratification that way on a couple of occasions too.

a fond memory that one.

obviously i wasn't living in a damd city where the forrest is too far to walk to at the time.

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