Yeah I know what you mean... I do that as well when i just want to enjoy the feeling, as for getting off though, it'll never happen unless speed is increased as well as intensity. In the shower its horrible because I have nothing to look at, just my imagination, and my mind is always wondering like crazy too so i can't stay focused (lol). It's gotta be fast and hard for me
I didn't realize my problems were so fucking funny. Show some compassion and/or maturity about this please.
I agree... I don't think it's a physical problem, probably mental. Is there any reason you think it may be a problem related to circumsicion, a scar or anything? A severe curve? Painful erections?
I think it might be circumcision because I have read removing the foreskin causes you to lose nerve endings which cause sensation. Most of my erections are caused by mental thoughts and not by physical touch. I have a circular, red and black colored scar and streched, wrinkly skin on the bottom side of the head, but I heard that was normal. I don't suffer from any other problems that you mentioned.
Circumcision causes everyone to loose nerve endings. I think it is archaic, and needs to be stopped, but we can discuss that in another post... If you EVER wake up with an erection, ie "morning wood," you can rule out physical problems. The type of scar you have mentioned does not sound serious. Only if there was a buildup of scar tissue blocking the nerves would I be concerned. This is most likely mental. What type of feelings do you have about sex? Have you been raised that it is dirty, etc. Have you been raised in an extremely religious household? Are you confident in your sexuality? Do you have a friend you can beat off with? For some reason, that seems to help a lot of guys conquer/resolve issues. ...my best advice, practice makes perfect. BTW, I have studied human sexuality a lot, I am not just pulling this stuff out of my ass, so to speak.
...also, how old are you? That can have a lot to do with it too. (How come nobody on this forum fills out their profile???)
Since a few girls have rejected me, I guess I have some confidence issues. I also have a problem with body acceptance, but still enjoy being naked. My parents aren't very religious and I almost consider myself an atheist. I think I am pretty open-minded about sex since I would be willing to try many things I have read about here with a girlfriend. Any masterbation I do will be alone, since your idea crosses a line I will not go over. I am a teenager who is soon going to be considered a legal adult.
This is actually encouraging. You obviously are confident in your predeifined limits, now if you can teach yourself to be confident in other ways you will be set. I wish I could tell you an easy formula to do so, but I think this is something that everyone struggles with, in some shape or form.