So my girlfriend is on birth control and we are going to have sex for the first time since she had been on it. I was wondering what will happen to cum when i ejactulate in her? Will it leak out or does she need to get rid of it or does her bady absorb it?
lionman80, the part of a girl's vagina where urine comes from is NOT the same part that a penis goes into when she has intercourse *rolls eyes* now from someone who actually has a vagina, and a clue (that's me) afterwards the cum may dribble out a little and she will be very wet there. think how wet she gets when you finger her etc...about 3x that. if she leaves it her body will absorb it after an hour or so (she may have to wipe her vagina if she doesn't like the feeling of it being so wet). on the other hand if it's uncomfortable she might want to shower and just use her fingers to get some of the cum out and wash herself. it's totally up to prefrence. just remember though....birth control isn't 100% and so condoms are always adviseable. also they protect from STDs which other birth control won't. if you still want to go ahead, remember one or both of you may have a dormant STD...so get tested first and save the possibility of hurting each other.
I usually just get up and take a leak afterwards... wiping after urinating tends to wipe away most of the cum on those few times I've had sex without a condom
I'm with ihmurria. I usually just go to the bathroom afterwards and wipe myself clean, even if I don't have to pee.
If her BC works well you dont have to worry, if you dont know then you should pull out just to be safe......also watch out for stds! unless you know both of you are clean! have fun!
what an idiot. whatever. it's always best to use condoms. bc birth control isn't always effective. just ask me, ha, i'll tell ya.
Take a towel to the bed so you both can wipe yourself, or have her go pee afterwards and use the towel then. I have heard that a little testosterone (from the cum) left inside a woman is healthy - it is absorbed into her body. I always like to clean myself soon after sex, and I use skin lotion on my penis after the cleaning is done. I like prolonged intercourse sessions (maybe 1,000 thrusts before I cum), and I never have chafing afterwards, nor does my girlfriend, because I always make sure we are well lubricated.
I'm all about the creampies too! I'd prefer that a lover not wipe it, and let us bask in the afterglow..........
'pulling out just to be safe' mmm i think i've heard that before. From blokes who do not like wearing condoms. I think to be SAFE and SECURE a condom should be used. Saying that it depends on if they both have had a STD check up and do not sleep around. If they are both 'clean' then i guess you take your chance with the BC. I'm pretty sure it is very effective. He is risking it with not wearing a Condom though. I doubt 'pulling out' will prevent nothing happening. As much as us blokes would like that to be true.