Need help!! New to being gay!

Hey guys... I just finally found out that im gay and im loving it!! It was actually because i became friends with a gay guy and he just coasted me into it. Anyway... I was wondering if anyone had suggestions on good feeling sex techniques because i really want to try something but i dont know what to do. I know this kind of sounds stupid but im new to being gay so give me some le-way.

 

I didn't know you could be "coasted" into being gay..

 

If I may...since you asked..suggest that you take things slowly. When it comes to gay sex, there are a whole lot of things that you can do wrong. I don't want to scare you or anyone else, but both my boyfriend and I have had experiences where we (seperately) took things to fast because we were so excited that we hurt ourselves. I'm specifcally talking about anal sex. Just remember that sex shouldn't hurt! Sometimes during intimate moments a little pain actually feels good...but you may regret your actions when you can't have sex for several weeks and are in a lot of pain.

How about trying simply finding your g-spot; stimulate your prostate. Some of the most powerful orgasms I've ever had have come from my partner stimulating my prostate. It can be very intimate as well...if that's what you are looking for. If you really want to have anal sex and feel that you are ready - I would suggest trying a standing position. I've found that it can be a lot of fun (depending on the height of your partner) and gives you the ability to control how far his penis can go in.

I've been told time and time again that topping a man gives you a lot of control, and it does for about five minutes. Then you get excited and your legs eventually get tired and before you know it he's really pounding away and your in pain....and well it really sucks having to stop someone when their having a grand 'ole time because your insides are about ready to explode.

So - take your time and go slowly. Sex shouldn't hurt...if it does change things up before it hurts so bad you have to stop. Hope that helps.

 

OK heres the anal sex thread, even though I know thats not all there is too gay sex, thought you would be interested
http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=108697