me and my boyfriend have had sex several times, but i never come from the penetration. it feels good to have him inside me, but it doesnt seem to amount to anything. After a while of trying it just begins to frustrate me. sometimes i think im just putting this pressure on myself, (which is probably what it is). he feels bad that he doesnt make me orgasm and i feel even worse that i can come perfectly by myelf, i dont know whats wrong with me. what do you think?
25% of women can cum with intercourse alone, another 25% with manual stimulation and intercourse together, 25% with manual stimulation alone, and 25% never have orgasms. So don't worry if you can't cum with intercourse - most women cannot, I am sad to say. And it is not the fault of your guy - it is just how you are built.
Lots of practice and both of you enjoying. You say it feels good to have him inside of you, great. There is no crime in you enjoying it, or giving him pleasure. Relax and enjoy, I am sure it will eventually happen.
A lot of women can't. I've never orgasmed from penetration personally Don't stress about it. If you really wanna cum while he's inside of you, pick up a little bullet vibe and rest it on your clit while you two fuck.
quote me and my boyfriend have had sex several times, but i never come from the penetration. it feels good to have him inside me, but it doesnt seem to amount to anything. After a while of trying it just begins to frustrate me. sometimes i think im just putting this pressure on myself, (which is probably what it is). he feels bad that he doesnt make me orgasm and i feel even worse that i can come perfectly by myelf, i dont know whats wrong with me. what do you think? quote Can you cum from masterbation/oral sex??? I would try this before sex, if you have an orgasm it is that much easier to have more during sex if he hits your G! Good luck!
I have the same prob. it the 2+ years that I've been having sex, I have cum with him inside me 3 or 4 times, and they weren't as good as the ones I can give myself. Don't stress it. at least you can cum at all. I have a hard time getting off, no matter what. takes waaaay too much concentration and effort.
See my earlier post here. There is nothing wrong with you - just do some clitoral stimulation at the same time as intercourse. Try to have your boy friend learn g spot stimulatiion and have him do it while you are giving yourself clitoral stimulation - double orgasms possible.
yes get a bullet vibrator. those things are magical, seriously! its worth a shot. and btw i had the same problem as you for years but then i found out exactly what makes me go and things have been great ever since
yeah, i can cum perfectly fine by myself, but oral doesnt make me cum either. but i reallly want to. and it upsets my bf that he cant make it happen. but this is just something we have to work at. but hey, its a fun activity and im hoping eventually we will be coming together.
