calling you beautiful during sex??

my friend jason and i have a strange relationship to say the least......

we have always wanted to be with each other, but either i had a boyfriend or he had a girlfriend so we didn't get out chance until a couple months ago....

we have gotten to the point of being intimate with one another even though we are not actually in a relationship with each other..... right now we are pretty much fuck buddies......


the other night we had intercourse and afterwards we were still fooling around with each other and while we entered the final makeout session of the night, he told me i was beautiful.....i thought this meant nothing and it was just the after sex euphoria that was talking, but maybe i'm wrong

what do you girls think when a guy says this to you after sex, do you believe him, or think of him as a horny jerk?

ps i'm not interested on hearing opinions of my situation, just your own experiences with this

 

He thinks you're aesthetically pleasing

it doesn't by any necessity mean anything more than that, nor anything less. Doesn't mean he's in love with you, just that he enjoys what you look like.

 

Some things are easier to say at those times. It may well be something hes wanted to say for a long time, but wasnt able to muster the courage. Fear of rejection or messing up a good friendship sometimes keep us guys from being so blunt as to our opinions of beautiful friends. Just another reason guys sometimes have a hard time giving compliments, I guess. I certainly dont think he was trying to be a jerk! lol

 

My husband tells me I'm beatiful 1,000 times a day, including before, during, and after sex. Maybe he really does just think you are beautiful

 

okay I dont need to post this guy just took the words directly from my mouth.

 

That's actually kinda wierd and a little depressing yet I don't know how. meh.

 

He thinks you're beautiful. He could mean that your soul is beautiful, he could mean nothing more than that you physically are beautiful.

He may be just a horny flatterer if he says this before sex. After he's already gotten there, what does he gain from saying this? Why say it if he doesn't mean it.

It doesn't mean "I love you" or anything more. It means "you're beautiful", nothing more, nothing less.

Why do you have a hard time believing that a guy finds you beautiful?

 

he means it, man!

you've known him long enough to know when he's sincere or full of shit, or just what kind of guy he is in general

he was telling you something he'd been wanting to tell you for a long time, but was never the right time, place or situation

bask in the glow of the compliment, baby!

 

i dunno....to me it seems that (if this was the first time he said it)..hes getting used to having you around and he might finally be getting the courage to say deep things to you like that after sex. its not like he said you were "hott" he said you were beautiful. its really hard to say because all guys are different. who knows...

 

May i just say, as a dude, that you girls, ladies and women really DO look beautiful after sex...just like before, and during...
it is indeed the soul, the pulse, the aura, the radiation, the resonation,...perhaps even the transpiration

 

Could go either way.Know one knows what he is feeling but him.

 

I said the same to a beautiful friend I had. Until that day, I did not realize the person I had as a friend. Not only she was beautiful from the physical point of view but her soul was too.
Sit down with him and explore together the "true" meaning of that expresion ..you may be closer than you think emotionally!!
You may be fooling yourselves abt who you truly love.
I was in love with my beautiful friend and didn't fully realized it until that moment ..when I told her spontaneously "you are beautiful" ... please let us know which way it went