Will all relationships end in sorrow and misunderstandings and heartbreak? should I just go foreward in life under the assumption that I will never ever get close to anyone again to avoid this unbearable sadness?
Terrapin - Try eHarmony.com or Match.com when the time is right for you. You might get lucky and find a guy whom you get to know on the inside before you see his outsides.
Cutted you are right!!! the key is to know and fall in love for the person inside ... but also ..we can love many people at the same time ... why does it have to be one or zero? ... control or eliminate jealousy thru open mindeness.