i personally think its not ok no matter what. if u have made a comittment to someone then u should remain loyal to that person for as long as u2 are together. LoNg LiVe TrUe LoVe
You aren't cheating if you do it with her permission. Are you ok with it if she sleeps with another guy or girl?
I guess the question is why does she think it is ok? Some people can be fine with that, but sometimes it can mean she isn't all that into you and you are more of a sex toy to her than a serious partner. But to answer your question, if she seriously tells you it is ok, then it is ok, but be prepared for her to change her mind after you do it.
Depends on how she says it and why. There's nothing wrong with polyamoury or having an open relationship, as long as both people are ok with. Some folks are hardcore monogamists, and that's ok too. Just means they won't date people who want to have a poly relationship. But remember that if you get to sleep with other people, she too will (probably) want that opportunity/right available to her.
If you are not sure then you need to ask her, not us. You need to be honest and open about this. Tell her straight out, that you are attracted to another girl and based on her previous comments, you intend have a relationship with this girl, let your girl friend know that if she is uncomfortable with the situation, this is her last chance to back out. If she still says its okay, then take her at her word, assume she is not a lying conniving bitch. If after you have sex with another girl, she gets mad at you, then she is a lying conniving bitch, you should tell her so and break up with her.
I personally do not see how a girl who is supposedly into a guy that much could possibly allow her guy to fuck other girls.
I would talk to her about it. But I defiantley wouldnt if you are in a serious realtionship. She could be "testing" you to see if you make the right choice. Cruel, I know but some do it.
If you find this is the case, get out of the relationship immeaditely, I don't care how much you love her, girls like this only bring misery.
if she says its ok then by all means go ahead but make sure she means it and isn't mind fucking you...
Getting mad summarily doesn't mean she's a lying and conniving bitch or mind fucking. I've seen this happen before and the OK was given. She thought she was Ok, she was doing it because she thought it would make her husband happy and spice things up and she thought she could handle it but when it came down to the act, she found out that no matter how she rationalized it in her head, it still affected her emotionally. If you're not in a long term committed relationship, I would be wary though.
