Do you ever feel...

Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by PeaceBabe, Jan 19, 2007.

  1. PeaceBabe

    PeaceBabe Senior Member

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    You are in a world of gorgeous people... and you will never be one of them?

    Or somthing similar?
     
  2. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    i don't know hun, you're fucken gorgeous
     
  3. PeaceBabe

    PeaceBabe Senior Member

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    This is so typical of someone my age I suppose but-

    I feel like its all just a superficial nighmare. I don't fit into a mold- so by the majority of people I am considered, abnormal for a lack of a better term.

    I thank you- but this is not the purpose of this thread. Please- no pity. Just disscusion.
     
  4. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    no pity, man..i really think everyone (fitting in or not) is absolutely gorgeous in there own right..never feel like you're not..you know yourself better than anyone else, and beauty truely is inside, no matter what other people or the superficial pressures society put on you..know that inside you're absolutely gorgeous :)
    but you're the only one that can make you feel that way...fuck anyone that puts you down or makes you feel any other way
     
  5. PeaceBabe

    PeaceBabe Senior Member

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    You know, and ussually I feel that way too. It so hard, though, not to be affected by others. Its our nature to do so I think. I used to resist it- societies pressure that is- now I feel I buy into it a little more.
    That makes be feel even worst. Knowing I try to fit in sometimes and I still never will. Whats even worst is- I dont know if thats ok with me. I used to be. So I need to asses my feeling a little bit more I think.
     
  6. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    you're only 14, it is natural for you to want to fit in..either you will find people who are like you and you will finially fit in, or you'll find people accepting of you..it'll take time but it will happen :)
    6 million people on the planet or whatever, there's plenty of people out there, you'll find someone you can connect to :)
     
  7. PeaceBabe

    PeaceBabe Senior Member

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    I realize this also. Its not like I dont have friends- I do. I feel like I fit in with them mentally- but no way physically.

    I have always been a large girl, I am almost 6 foot tall and 200 pounds, with size 12 feet. I would kill for a friend who could share clothes with me- someone to understand what I feel like. I was also raised by my father my entire life- and I feel I miss there feminine touch. I am like a guy friend to them- I think they feel the same way.
     
  8. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    it's ok, everyone at one point or other feels that way..but with so many people on this planet there are people that are like you both physically and mentally, it'll work itself out :)
    don't worry, things will work themselves out, high school is rough but you move on from it, and life after high school is a hundred times better :)
     
  9. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    sometimes...
    well, not like there's a band of gorgeous women out to get me.
    But I have my on days and my off days (my cute days and my fat days, if you will)
    And I know that most of my female friends are outrageously gorgeous. I mean, I have a pretty face but I'm noticeably overweight, whereas a lot of them are skinnier or have huge racks (I'm not kidding, my cousin and my best friend are like DD's)

    *shrugs* here's the thing, beauty only means so much in this world. Brains, wisdom, intelligence, ability, love, kindness, respect... they all factor into our lives a lot more than aesthetics do. At least, they do in my life.
     
  10. thehippie_08

    thehippie_08 that girl

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    you'll always have friends here, deary.

    and yes i have had one of those days but then i just look at myself in the mirror and say "Everyone is gorgeous in their own way, I am beautiful." Then i feel better and if i don't i just say "f*ck it" and walk away...
     
  11. Orsino2

    Orsino2 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    I think you're just overthinking it a bit. Relax... you're not the only person your age that feels that way.
     
  12. all_rhodesian_reject

    all_rhodesian_reject Sonskyn Elvis

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    No, because i'm a millionaire playboy and everyone wants to be me
     
  13. L.A.Matthews

    L.A.Matthews Senior Member

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    Nope...Never.
     
  14. xxwhoadang

    xxwhoadang Member

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    i must agree with everything indian~summer said
     
  15. Pablo_Escobar

    Pablo_Escobar Member

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    Who gives a fuck? That's like honestly the worst thing to dwell on.
     

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