I have been dating my bf for a year now. He told me early on that he had a thing for anal. I have no problem with that, but I'd never done it before. We tried a couple of times, but it hurt too much and we had to stop. Since the second time, he hasn't reallly broached teh topic and neither have I. I really want to do this for him, and I am seriously curious... so I started to practice. I think the idea of the pain of it was making me tense up. A few times I've taken a dildo and tried to do it myself... AND... last night I finally did it. I pushed the 8 inch dildo all the way up my ass, as far as it would go. I was soooo excited. And I was so surprised - it felt amazing. I nearly came right then and there. My bf isn't as big as that, but I know it will be better with him because he's real. I even went so far as to double fill by pushing another dildo up my pussy - what an amazing feeling. I felt like I was floating. It felt so amazing, and when I finished it didn't hurt at all afterward. I wish I would have figured this out earlier. geez, I'm totally horny after having written this. He's at work, i might have to go take care of a couple of things myself. Here's my problem. Now that I know I'm ready, and I'll enjoy it - how do I go about bringing it up again? Any ideas. I'm so shy that I can't even bring myself to tell him when I want regular sex, never mind this. Anyone have any suggestions as to how to go about making this happen??
In the heat of the moment, when you two are having sex, just take charge and "slip" him in there a little. If he seems put off, a simple whisper in his ear will make his day...
Look him square in the eyes and say "I want you to fuck me in the ass." As long as you can get over your timidness, you'll have a night neither of you will ever forget.
dont worry about being shy, maybe try just hinting at it like band over as u start to get it on or something
My wife use to be super shy about asking for sex, or even telling me wether she liked something we did in bed or not. Over time she found out that I LOVE IT when she tells me these things. I doubt your man will critisize you for telling him you want to try anal again. Infact he will probably suggest trying it right there and then. Or you could use a less verbal method: next time you are getting ready to have sex get on your hands and knees, touch your asshole and just say "Put it here." He'll get the hint. trust me.
