Hey - Ive had really horrible experiences attempting to discuss issues with any of the guys/men/boys Ive dated...they seem very emotionally detached or worse uninterested in my feelings and emotions - so now Im afraid to even converse with my current "guy" about the way hes been making me feel lately...Ive heard he has a temper, and I dont want to lose him , although now Im thinking that hes not worth my time, and love, and anyone for that matter who wont respect me - should I just wait to be with someone who can talk openly about themselves...or am I kidding myself to think a man exists with such a soul? HELP?!
Not real sure where you're finding these guys at but they sure don't represent the gay guys I know. I know there are gay losers just as there are straight losers...why bother with em? If the guy you're talking to has no depth or soul, forget him, move on quickly. Life is too short to waste on shallow people of any flavor. If you haven't found a man with some soul maybe you need a new hunting ground.