Have you ever loved two (or more) people truly and fully at once?

Have you ever loved two (or more) people truly and fully at once?

 

Have you? How did you deal with the situation?

 

I wish I had made this one public.

I voted yes.

If you vote can you say what you said and if you want to, why you said it.

I have had very different types of love for diff. people but it made none the less special.

 

I'm assuming your referencing romantic love, and not the kind of love you feel for family and friends.

Personally? No. But, I know I'm capable of it, I just haven't been in a situation where I was around two people I could love at long enough to fall in love with them both.

 

Yeah romantic love I mean of course.



And to people that think Im talking about cheating, that's irrelavant. But cheating defiantly doesnt have to be involved. It could be being in a relationship with one ,person, and finding that that friend (other person) , well, you love them too in a romantic way, diff. but yes romantic, and if it was a different time... it could be if you are in an open relationship, it could be not getting over your ex that you love but loving the next person.... yeah, i state the obvious. sorry.

 

Yes I have and it made things mentally difficult for a awhile the love for the two people were different for one then the other but that didn't lessin the impact it had on me. In the end you decide which you know is the one you believe is truely right for you. I am still friends with the other person, we were always platonic but I love that person none the less and it is undescribable by far. There was apoint I though of wlaking away from the relationship I was in to see what came out with the other person but it wouldn't of worked romantically we want different things we agree there are overly strong feelings there but the will never be acted on.

 

It's a mental mess. Seriously. Ah well.

 

Some people need the obvious stated.

 

Relic, just read your first post again and I've gone through something very similar. Have second guessed myself at times because of the passion and kindred spirit thing but yeah... you think and have to be logial and that's what it comes down it. Knowing who is there and good for you in that way and vice versa.. but yeah, you never stop loving that other person in a special place in your soul

 

That is a fact. Recently that person was sent overseas for a year and I about lost it worring tha something will happen and he won't come back. It is weird the bond between you and the other person. This person and my spouse are completly different.
Maybe in a different life I would of chose another path but I think the one I chose is the right one but I keep in mind that fate holds the cards not us.

 

Yes it is possible and it has gone on for years with me.

 

I have my husband but there is at least one person I know I love in another way... I have never cheated but I know in my heart if things were different, even just timing.... things would have been great. That's life I guess. I got a great friend outta it.

Then there is another that I was with before my husband, years before, that I have remained close to and I know even if I was single it wouldnt be right to sleep with him or be with him but..... I love him still and that love has turned into a direction of ...well... like a family member, someone to trust, cry on their shoulder, just another kindred spirit.

I know I truly love them all though. I wanna be with how Im with but.... I love them in different ways as well. My husband actually kinda knows about it... I dont go on and on to him about it outta resepct but Ive told him.

 

Once love takes hold it is hard to get it to let go!

 

Sure...love is love..and sometimes has nothing to do with sex....its a verry powerful emotion.....and has no logic ......sometimes.....

 

It seems we have walked the same path a time or two.

 

Yeah, you seem to get it.

 

In fact...I love several right now...a couple have no clue...and its cool....

 

I have. To be honest, I've never understood the concept of only being able to love one person. Love isn't possessive like that in my mind.

 

Damn. That is me.

Yes.

I live it.

Ggreat Ggoogly Moogly...

 

No. I really like other people, but not in the same way.