ive been with my gf for about 7mths, my prob is i have an average to small penis(5in) my gf has never really commented on it but she says she feels me when we have sex, but i really wanna please her, lately she said her and her friends want to go to a male strip club...what does that shit mean to me.....
Um, it means she went to a male strip club. *sigh* penis size is not the be-all end-all of a good sex life. In fact, a great many women simply CANNOT orgasm from intercourse alone, and to many women out there penis size doesn't matter. I'd rather a partner was great at oral sex than had a massive schlong because, well, a big member doesn't mean you know how to please a woman at all. If you want tips, check out the love and sex forum http://www.hipforums.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=13 for tips (there's a handy-dandy subforum called oral and anal sex with some good tips on oral sex on a women, ie "cunnilingus tips" http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=147855 )
A five inch cock is probably average for much of the world, and you should not be ashamed of it. Try some positions which might be better with your length - rear entry, woman on top, and if your penis has a sharp upward bend to it, try the missionary position with her butt on a pillow and her legs pulled back as far as they can go, so her knees are touching her chest, or if she is really double jointed, her legs behind her arms. You can enter her with your banana five incher and really go after her g spot on the under side of her pelvic bone with the head of your penis. It's not how big it is but what you do with what you got that counts.
in all honesty if she went to see male strippers it was probably to laugh at em, they are usually a big joke......
Honestly if I were you I wouldn't worry about it. She just went to a strip club, but if you are concerned, check out the forums Amuria suggested.
Should she be concerned that you're not satisfied with her sexually -- maybe her boobs are too small, her tummy not flat enough -- if you want to go along with your buddies to a female strip club? If you're concerned about your sexual performance, next time you two are fooling around, ask her what she would like for you to do. Don't phrase it as "am I enough for you?", because that will sound like she should be reassuring you. But ask if there is anything she likes that you haven't thought to try or if she has any fantasies. As has been said, size doesn't really matter, unless of course you're one of the few people at the extremes, with either 2 inches fully erect or 12 inches (which is only a good size to impress other guys, most women don't want their cervix bruised).
