i'll be very brief I know that i love some women so much that even if they were men i would want to connect with them in both a physical and emotional way
I don't think there should be any shoulds in sexuality and I can still love my female friends deeply and its just as fulfilling if not more than my sexual relationships S
You're brevity throws me. Seems like you want to complement women, but up comes a backhanded complement. "even if they were men." I am often confounded by bi folks, I just don't understand. Do you feel a need to separate your sexual orientations? Gayness and straightness? Is it a competition? I've always felt that bisexuals are the third sex, but in truth (or at least percentages) you are the first. I mean, I don't look at bisexuals has having "two" sexual orientations. Wait a sec, I assumed that because you are writing in a bi forum, you are bi, do you see yourself as gay? And forgive me, being gay, I see myself as two spirited. That is a position which has been venerated and demonized in the past and in the present. But when I stop to think on it, bisexuals may be closer to 'two spirits.' Or is it that I have the two spirits within me but bisexuals are able to relate to either one? That's what I mean by confounded.
i think the concept of being two spirited isn't strictly related to sexuality. some people are just gay, just bi, and within those, there will be those who are two spirited. or a blended spirit, perhaps?
Why you should be attracted to ugly people: "I know that i love some people so much that even if they were ugly i would want to connect with them in both a physical and emotional way"
I believe that was a play on words of the original poster on the thread, take another look at the post and then the original post and I think you'll find its poking fun at it S
i love women. i love their smell and i love their hair, and i love their soft skin. I love that i can do whatever i want with a woman.. i know what she wants b/c like her, i am also a woman. There are no rules when it comes to love and sex. If you fall in love with a woman or man, it's still love. If you get caught up in a hot intense moment with the same sex, go for it. you have one life, with no rewind button... do it your way. NO REGRETS
I can't answer for the originator of this posting. But I can answer for myself. Do you feel a need to separate your sexual orientations? Yes. Bisexuality is its own sexual orientation. It is distinct from homosexuality. A bisexual person is regularly attracted to both genders. A homosexual person is regularly attracted to a person of the same gender. Bisexuality is also distinct from heterosexuality. A heterosexual person is attracted to a person of the opposite gender. While sexuality may be fluid; the regularity of attraction within the orientation is predominently consistent. Gayness and straightness? Being bisexual is not a struggle between whether a person is gay or straight. A bisexual person is neither and both. In other words, a bisexual person is attracted to both genders, plain and simple. They may prefer one gender over the other at a given point in time; but even with that preference they are still attracted to the gender of the lesser preference. I don't understand why people assume that a bisexual person is internally struggling with homosexuality vs. heterosexuality. The world is not always black and white. Bisexuality is a third orientation, and it deals with attraction to both genders. Why does it have to be any more complicated than that? I don't understand why you're confused. If I was going to give an example; I would give my typical fruit analogy: you can like an orange, and you can like an apple. One day you might prefer the apple. Another day you might prefer the orange. On the day you prefer the apple; this doesn't make you an orange-phobic person; neither does it make you an apple-only person. The same goes with the orange. (My actually analogy is more thoroughly detailed, but here, I am just trying to be brief.) Is it a competition? No. I am not fighting to steal a gay man's partner from him. Neither am I fighting to steal a straight man's girl from him. I am fighting to find a partner of my own; but that's a normal challenge for a person of any sexual orientation. On a seperate but related note: Do not confuse bi-curiosity; sexual exploration; or homo-curiosity with bisexual orientation.
Thank you for your not so kind, not so informative post. The above is your opinion. I disagree. We're not asking you to do it; and what I do in the privacy of my own bedroom with my partner (whether male or female) is our business. A. Reperative therapy has time and time again been proven ineffective. B. Most researchers have found that people of "alternative" orientations are typically as educated as their peers. C. We have become more accepting of the term "queer." So you might you want to try another perjorative term, tyvm. D. The term "homophobia" was actually invented by scholarly acadamia; but thanks for your innaccuracy, anyway. Yes the LGBT has used that term, but then again so have many hetero-sexual persons, so your argument is unwarrented. This is a very old belief, that has been disputed, and has been proven inaccurate. Lets just ask a few questions: 1. Do you think you were born heterosexual? if the answer is yes, what if I said, "You are not born straight, it is a sickness you develop in your teens... etc.?" I had attraction to both males and females when I was 7 years old. Man that's at least 6 years off from your assumption. I don't see how you think the U.K. is a "Christian" Society. Yes, Christianity is the mainstream religion there, but the U.K. recognizes the legitmacy of other religions. Secondarily, the move wouldn't be of much benefit. Same-sex marriage is no longer legal in California. Housing of same-sex relationship partners is still legal in both places. Furthermore, marijuana is illegal in San Fransisco. It is only legal for those who have a doctor's prescription for its usage there. I don't knw what "fudgepack" means, must be a British term I am unfamiliar with, so I can't rant on that term.
Labels shouldn't exist, by labeling yourself you're just giving a another person a chance to stereotype you. Sounds rather dumb, just love who you love and let it be that.
Everyone should be bisexual because it would put a small scratch in the surface of the overpopulation problem. And because chicks are hotttt
Everyone should be bisexual because attraction is static, the electricity between two souls is beautiful and I don't care if it's shocking to you or anyone else, my heart fills with sparks everytime I find someone, whether they be a boy or girl, I'm love-struck like lightning! =D Love everyone and live life.
if you bump 2 rocks together, its the same as bumping a male and male, a female and a female, or hetro,, it kinda insignificant in the universe,, unless mating is necessary.. its all in your imagination anyways..
Like shoving your dick in someones pussy is any less 'disgusting'. Or shoving a dildo into your lovers pussy is any less 'disgusting' It's all disgusting. Do what works for you.
Coco was banned, but anyway Society is secular. And people have hated on gays for thousands of years. It's been against the law, punishable by death. It still is in some places. Even outside the law, gays are killed and abused because they are gay. You can't possibly attempt to 'stamp something out' more than that. Reguardless -it's still there as it always has been, And will be.
eveyone should be who they are. bisexuals aim for who they are interested at the moment, it's not that confusing. unless it's chicks kissing other chicks strictly for a man's attention. then it's just annoying, not confusing. sexuality is a gray area. to each their own. much love
