i prefer to be on top so i can be dominant and control the pace of things, its also easier to make it last that way
I like to switch it up. Sometimes I run out of energy being on top, and vice versa so it's nice to have a break.
I vastly prefer the guy to be on top, as I'm rather submissive... and my favourite positions (ie doggy, or missionary with wrists tied above the head) work best with him on top
I don't have a preference. When I'm in a rougher, more dominant mood, I like top. When I'm in a more quiet, peaceful mood, I like bottom so I can relax and look at her body.
It just seems when I am on top I am not as relaxed, because I am doing all the work. I get tired and do not enjoy it as much.
I usually prefer him to be on top because it's easier to hit my G-spot. Also, I'm lazy and I get more pleasure with less work.
It depends on what we're both after. With the main gf I had great sex with, sometimes I fucked her from the top, and at other times she was on top. Both ways were exciting and fun.
I like being on top, and my husband seems to like it that way too. We're not really sure why, I guess it just works for us... he likes to lay back and watch, I like to do most of the work.
Been married many years to my best friend. Wife O's better on top, she can control the contact. And it makes me last much longer, it teases and builds up my arousal. Plus for variety's sake, she has enjoyed "doing" me as she says. We laugh and enjoy this playful role reversal.
It doesn't matter to me but I'm on top most of the time or its doggie. Her on top is rare she says it feel it in too deep, plus when she was on top she gave me a major case of rug burn. That shit hurt after we stopped I could barely sit.
It depends on my mood. I like being on top sometimes because I know exactly what angle will 'get me off' so to speak and it provides better clit stimulation. But with that said there is just nothing like having a guy just up and ravish you, with them being in total control. I think that may in fact be sexier. If I'm on top the sex is going to be "lighter" and playful, like a snack. Something spontaneous, perhaps -- very often when I'm in the mood and am wearing a skirt I'll just stealthily slip my panties off and then just sit on his lap and smile. Missionary, spooning, etc position are more of a full course -- spiritual and excellent for making love. I like missionary because I can look into his eyes when he's inside me and I feel so very connected. The last category is doggy style. Fast food. For just fucking. If I don't want a lot of pretense -- I just want to get fucked well and good this position is lovely.
Gypsy-- My wife is the same. I prefer to be on top to control the pace and to be dominate which she likes. Also, she is so f'ing hot that I cannot last too long if I am just watching her body on top. I am sure you understand.
I like doggy style the best. He can get waaaay deep inside me that way. After that, variations on missionary - I'm with whoever Ihmurria, as a submissive girl being on the bottom turns me on more. My favorite variation on missionary: when he ties my hands to the headboard, and then brings my legs up and ties them to the headboard too. Leaves me wide open and feeling incredibly exposed and slutty. Like a lot of girls I'm kindof still getting past the idea that my pussy looks gross - stupid society! - so to have it totally on display like that makes me feel humiliated. (in other words, great.)
