once again...ex, maybe sending signals... :S

hey.
last thursday, i saw my ex, as ya do, out around town on the night. out drinking with mates, for her mates birthday. some dude was out with her that likes her, but there's nothing really goin on between them...from what she's told me.

the thing is, i left them early to go to a rock-dance club thing to see other mates. and when i was gettin off the bus (ironically, the same bus, and bus stop as this dude who was out) and walking home, she rings me up. this is at like 11:45 pm or something.
she started saying my hair is "mint" and all this (ive just cut it. from really long, to canny short, lol). and then we were talking, and she said something like "everyone likes, or fancies, you now"...and i was like, "what?...who?"...etc. and also asking "what ya doin tomorrow?" n stuff

she was a bit pissed to be fair, but she said this before she went out, when she was sober.
apparently, one of her bestfriends, who's got a bf (although it doesnt look good for them) at the mo, rrrreeeaaaalllyyyy likes me. and my ex was asking me if i liked her, which i kinda' do. aye. but i still like me ex =O

anyway. aye. i keep feelin like im gettin signals from my ex, but only very small ones.
like the day after i saw her n her mates, we arranged to met up in town. she didnt tell any of her mates where she was goin, or this dude. lol.
we ended up walking for about an hour along by the river, nice quiet, nature place. which we both like. i'll admit, she did talk for the most part, which i enjoyed just listening to her. she told me about what she's been up to lately, how college is going, a canny bit about her last relationship, and the one before that. and other things. just general crack.

anyway, i dont really know how to conclude this, so meh. any thoughts/opinions on the situation would be great. lol.
thanks! =)

 

If she wasn't interested on some level she wouldn't be talking to you. She may just be taking another look since her friends showed interest. No one can tell you where it will lead.

 

well first off, just wana say thanks Haid for replyin (=

i know no one can tell me whats gonna happen. i have to find that part out for myself. i dunno though. maybe it was just a bit rant, or release. anyone been in a similar situation? or done something similar?? lol...anything! please? d=

 

yeah i think her interest in you may just because other people are showing an interest. i think you should just play it cool, if she is really interested in getting back together with you let her do all the chasing. but keep your options open, if other people are interested then you never know a relationship could develop & you'll get over your ex. on the other hand she may just want to stay friends with you cus you a cool guy.

 

right, well, i dunno.
meh.
we were talking on the ol' msn earlier, she said she was "so so"...i asked why, she then asked me what it means when a guy asks "will you be my valentine?"...she doesnt wana go with this guy, apparently.
anyway, i trail. i asked her who she likes, she said "i dunno"..."do you like my friend?"...in the end, i told her that i liked her.lol. shit. i didnt tell her straight forward, it as more "if i said i liked this lass <insert her first name>...what would you say?"
she said summit like "im wana be single"...which i respect. i wasnt lookin to go with her yet anyway, just to tell her how i felt. then she said its complicated (whatever that means) and then suddenly said she was going offline "to find something to do for this night".
right.
thats my last update on the situation, i promise.
any thoughts on what she meant?
i swear this is the last.
lol.
goodnight for now.
peace out.

 

Well she is run by whatever emotion happens to hit her at the moment. On the one hand she doesn't want you back. On the other, once her friend showed interest she re-evaluated. I say DO NOT get back w/ this chick. She's just gonna hurt you in the end.

 

yeah, i know this. i keep telling myself i shouldnt, and all that. but in all honesty; i just dont care anymore. when we were seein each other, for like nearly 2 years, i wanted her to be the ONE, wanted to spend my life with her n all that marlarcky...but now? i just wana spend one day with her. not caring when i see her, how long i see her for, where i see her etc...just to be with her. if it ends after a month, im happy. seems fucked up eh? maybe so.
but at the same time, if there's no chance of it happening, then i would rather have a straight answer; "no, we wont get back together, ever." kinda thing. THEN i can move on.
rant rant rant...babble babble babble. i do apologise.