Ok, a few weeks ,my wife who for 12 years that i've known her was disgusted by the thought of being with another woman, had a fantasy where she and I went to a strip club so she could get a lap dance from a hot chick while I watched. She then told me she would actually like to go out and do it. I at first thought she was kidding, so I kinda didn't think much of it. She mostly wants to do this for me and a small part is doing it for her. She said she's not sure if it would turn her on or not to get a lap dance, but we will find out she said. I then asked her if she like the lap dance if she would consider doing other sexual things to a woman. Her responce was if she liked it enough she would consider kissing and doing other sexual things with woman. But one step at a time. Now I came out and asked her if she was curious about other woman and she said not even a little bit. That makes me so confused. Can she be willing to do sexual things with another woman if the lap dance turns her on and still not be curious? I need some opinions here. Of course im all for this.
Don't blow it, Man. Go at her pace and don't rush her into anything. Let her own curiosity take over. My wife became bi curious after her menopause, in her 50's. Let her appreciate the beauty of another woman and that its Cool to do it if she desires. Whatever you do, don't make it like you are looking to get another chick in bed with the two of you. She will probably reject that idea right off. If you get to a club and she gets a lap dance. Sit back, don't say a word and let it get as hot as it can get. It should be worth the effort in the long run.
I get very aroused by the fact that people, including women, check out or hit on my girlfriend. It makes her feel sexy and confidence is a good thing in most situations. I also get to take her home at night. We're monogamous but sometimes I wonder if I'd get even more turned on if she did certain things with other people. The thought itself is hot on occasion. Let the chips fall where they may and enjoy the ride. If she wants to do this for both of your benefit, shit, have at it. Full-on polyamory, though, is risky.
