So my girlfriend and I have started to do somethings. I have touched her breasts and touched her down there. I want to start to finger her and give the clit stimulation but Im not going to be able to see because we have agreed to keep clothes on. My question is, how do I find the clit without being able to look for it with my eyes?
seeing as your fingers are going to be down there already, why not feel for it? It is a nub, located above the place you are going to put your fingers in. Its just a vagina.. relatively simple in design.
Yeah, I don't think you need to see. Basically, there are two ways to find it. 1) Feel for it. 2) Have her help you, either outright by directing you, or by implication just paying attention to how she responds to different things.
its at the very top between the folds of her pussy. once you can feel her inner lips you'll be able to feel the nub by pressing upwards. its not inside her but it is hidden under the very top of her inner lips....hope that helps
Bear - Are you going to do it with your hand under her clothes or on top of them? From much experience, the clitoris is farther down between most females' legs than you think it is. One way to find it in the dark is to move down to the vaginal opening, which you can find with your finger, and move upwards about an inch or less to the small raised area near the top of the labia. It will enlarge as she becomes aroused. Think of it as a very small penis, complete with a little head on it. It will be harder to find if your hand is on top of her clothes, although some females love the touch on their vaginal area from the outside of their silk panties. But most important, be gentle with it. You can whip around your penis pretty hard when you masturbate, but don't treat the clitoris similarly.
"Think of it as a very small penis, complete with a little head on it," wrote Cutted. He's correct. AND it has a 4skin-like hood as does the penis, which he didn't mention. Maybe he doesn't know about it. Don't tell him, he'll try to circumcise it!
