I am 15, turning 16 soon and haven't done hardly anything with a girl. For about 3 years now, I haven't been interested in getting a girlfriend. (well i was for a while, then she turned psychobitch) anyways, i always get really nervous when i get into relationships with girls. i always seem to find a way to break it off, and i think it's because im subconsciously insecure about myself. Whenever I hang out with a girl I never really want to get close to her because I might get a stiffy and she might feel it. I kind of think it all might stem from my own thoughts and whatnot. I am kind of critical of myself sexually (size, color, amount of hair, inexperience). But at the same time, I know I'm not TINY or anything, and a lot of the girls I even consider going out with are virgins too. Maybe someone can help??
How about you just get to know a girl...even if it's just as friends first. That takes the pressure off and in all reality, at your age, it's probably the best thing for you to do. Ever seen the Lifetime movie "Fifteen and Pregnant"? I don't think you want that movie to be your life...
No, I'm definitely friends with girls. Being friends is no problem, it's when we get into a more serious situation that I start lookin for an escape hatch
I do, but i just get this reaction out of nowhere and drop things. Then again, I haven't really tried a relationship in a while
You're 15 for Christ's sake...you don't NEED to be in a relationship and it's OK to change your mind...you're young, you can do that if you choose to.
ok...so i lost my virginity, and I'm doin this guy from behind, right? then he tried to reach around and touch my balls, and I'm like "WTF faggot?!" P.S. White people dreads = retarded most of the time
LOL thank you for taking the words right out of my mouth... You know, you only try to tear people down when you're self conscious about yourself, dude...get a life.
A problem with being a 15 year old boy, is that 15 year old girls are so much more grown emotionally. So - the minute that the boy steps out of line (even conversationally) the girls, both young and old, jump all over him. Slowly it becomes harder and much more difficult for the boy to explain himself, seek advice, or even converse with the fairer sex. For proof of this fact read again the above series of posts. Yeah, he sounds dumb, but women eventually telling him to "GAL" helps not at all - regardless of her exasperation. And as he stumbles into facts which do no good to the conversation in the repeating, a simple, "we don't want to know about your love life," might have sufficed. lawlersauce, I was about your age when I struck up a friendship with a gal who I knew from the start was not gonna be a fuckbuddy, no way to Suday. "Nice girl," was the term then. We stuck to it all through HS and a couple years of college. I never got to feel a single pubic hair, but did cop a boob or two. We had a great relationship that included my telling her on the dance floor, "sorry 'bout that thing poking you, I just want you to know I'm embarrased!" Of course we both blushed; later she said she knew I couldn't control it. Probably shoulda married her....... Anyway, I guess I'm telling you to find one you know you'll never get past shortstop with and learn how to really enjoy a woman. They're great! I never met one I didn't fall in love with, if only for a second or two. .... And knock off the guys if you don't like the reaction. That's what you've got a hand for.
