I probably have the worst time gettin a girl.

I havent had a girlfriend for quite a while now. I starting to find it really hard to find another girlfriend at this point. A little reminders on what I need to do would be nice.

 

I don't know how much advice I can offer because I've tried to teach my skills to my close friends, and they've meet with little or no results to show for it - but I'll try.


I guess in some ways it's all about attitude, because whenever I enter a room I believe I can walk out of the room with any girl (and on most occasions) I do just that.

If you have a target in mind (before you enter the room) just scan the room with your eyes for something unusual going on or out of place (to give you an opening) to begin a conversation. If you don't have a particular girl in mind then make eye contact with as many women in the room as you can to gauge their reaction to you. If they look interested then approach.


Hotwater

 

Ok....this may sound lame , but it works , Smile , and be open and friendly.....ask her about herself and act like you are really interested in what shes saying.....

 

thanks guys.

 

if ya try so hard to find a girlfriend, it won't work....
ya should just live and be positive and it will come to ya without any efforts from ya

 

dont try... just do it
be upbeat and happy and act like your the person to hang with if they wanna have fun, but dont be cocky or any of that shit cause noone likes that.

but most of all be yourself

 

btw leftover crack is the shit

 

thanks

LOC IS AWESOME!!!

 

What's this thing about "acting" interested? Do you think of courtship as some time of acting class or something? you know one thing I've noticed about those people who says they want a relationship like in the movies? They never look at the fact that in thos movies they communicate. they don't play cat and mouse, they don't mind fuck each other and try to gain mental suporiority (and if they do it's usually obvious to the other party) They don't lie and beat around the bush. except when it's on a more base level. Maybe If you were just yourself and let the wind blow things will feel better. Maybe the best advice I can give is to give up. Love isn't something you look for. It's something you find. Just cherish each moment, and everyone your around, and maybe you'll meet someone. Maybe you wont. but all you can do is make the best of it

 

^ That's a good point. I'm tired of people saying, "act like you're interested" or "act like you're happy to see her" or something. That's such fucking bullshit. If you're acting, then why the fuck are you even bothering with the relationship?

 

your suppose to "act"? no wonder i've always been single.

 

I try to use humor. It is a big turn on for a lot of people. It doesn't have to be all that funny either, just a quick little comment and aa smile. If she smiles back she's yours.

 

i probably have the worst time getting a guy, welcome to the club.
come on in, take a seat, feel accepted.
=]

 

I have a little problem with being disconnected from everything when I'm off doing my thing. I don't even attempt to pay attention to others' body language or their attempts to communicate, unless it's just a "hi." That is, in public where I don't know anyone. When I actually have a reason to talk, things work much better.

I think being open to communication is one of the most important things, but I feel like I don't give a shit about that not at this point.

 

i envy you at least people notice your posts

 

Does it make you feel kind of depressed or alone???

If so, I guess first you need something to fill that hole, something that isnt a girl. Then your contagious well being will do you well ;p

 

My advice is be friendly and a little flirtatious.

It would work for me...haha!

 

thanks TigerLily77.
do you like Blondie song Call Me ?

 

the hippie 08 you seem really nice and if thats you in your sig, you're really pretty as well. I don't see why you would have a hard time findnig gusy. unless, of coursse you're shy like me.

 

Do you like the Blondie song "Dreamin?"

Hehe...good line.