Question about attraction in general?

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by -decaying-existence-, Feb 13, 2007.

  1. -decaying-existence-

    -decaying-existence- Member

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    Ok, so theres different types of attraction I assume, right? One that says in your brain, wow he/she is beautiful, then theres the, wow I would like to have sex with he/she, would this be correct. Can there be both, or is that love, when theres both all at once?

    So if the above is relatively correct you can be a guy and think another guy is handsome/attractive but not be physically attracted to him and want to have sex with him, correct? And the same would apply to women. Can someone give me some insight on this?
     
  2. SlickyPants

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    I agree with that. Different types of attractions do exist. I'm gay but there are some women whom I think are beautiful. At the same time there are other men I think look handsome as well but they aren't really my type. And then there are of course friends who you are attracted to because you have fun being with them, you are comfortable with them and you care about them.

    That's what I think at least.
     
  3. Samhain

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    are you concerned about your sexuality
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  4. -decaying-existence-

    -decaying-existence- Member

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    Isn't that obvious?
     
  5. CrazybutLazy

    CrazybutLazy Banned

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    Not really.
     
  6. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    you could just be trying to start an interesting conversation about attraction, it has been known
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  7. -decaying-existence-

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    I don't want to start any arguements here but lets look at the facts I am in the coming out and confused part of the gay forums, I think that would classify as a bit confused/concerned, wouldn't you agree. But I guess nobody want to help me answer my question, ok then we can just sit here and contemplate why I am even posting this...
     
  8. kzorz

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    understanding your situation would allow us to give you better advice, but whatever.

    anyway, you can be straight and think guys are attractive, but if you are aroused by it then you're gay/bi.
     
  9. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I think your response is a bit childish if you don't want people to ask you questions then you shouldn't post the thread, on the internet you are not always going to get the responses you expect, no one has posted off topic, we are simply asking you questions to be clearer about this, in order so we can help.
    no body on here are mind readers, this forum could be about discussing the subject of sexual confusion and unless you own it, people may not presume to direct their answers to you.
    or maybe you wish to objectify this then we don't get too close with our answers?
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  10. -decaying-existence-

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    Thank you for that advice, thats what I was looking for.
     

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